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She's had a lot of financial issues. I buy clothes for her kid, I will do material things, but I don't like giving her cash because she doesn't seem to be responsible with it. In this case she'd probably need to buy diapers or something when she got out, and I would consider the $50 a loss if I put it up for this.
I did my semi-annual buy of clothes for her kid only a week ago -- her and my other god-niece are still too young to really remember what gifts are, so until they can get mad at me for giving them a sweater or some such for Christmas, they're getting clothes and other things like that. Plenty of other people seem to give toys but few seem to think that warm clothing might really be what's needed.
Also, I'm not there to supervise her -- she lives about three hours away. When it was the dude who lived across from me, I knew I could wake him up and drive him to court... actually, I did drive him, but he was already awake, he'd barely slept at all that night. If I KNEW I could make her go to court, I might put it on a card -- but I am not there to do it.
I'm also hesitant to have my name on anything involved in the case because the major retailer is my client, and they are very picky -- I could lose my job if I bailed her out and they saw my name on it.
If I had the budget for clothes for the Palin family, I'd probably do it. But I don't, and I won't put it on credit cards or do a title loan or any of the other options I could do tonight. But if they won't lower her bond or at least put it to a bailable bond tomorrow, we'll see. I'd be happy to take care of her little girl until her court date, and I think the grandparents and the dad in this situation would be cool with that, but if she's in jail for very long she will lose custody I'm pretty sure.
*le sigh*
I got the call while I was asleep, and the first thing I said was "Please tell me this is just a really vivid dream...."
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