How have you dealt with people who repay kindness with unkindness?

[MrScorpio]

It's just a question

[kat_kringle]

1. i've given them more kindness

ok, honestly, that's me being idealistic, but it's what i strive to do.

usually, i blow up, and then, apologize and discuss the situation immediately after blowing up.

[ghostsofgiants]

2. Fuck 'em up!

x(

:P

[SarahB]

3. Daily

I chock it up to, "they have issues"!

[Agent William]

4. Simple

I just wait a few years for that person to self destruct in a big way. It works every time. So far I'm like 8-0 in situations like this.

[tismyself]

5. just like clock work

It happens every single time, never seen it fail.

And, when they do, it's usually so deep, thorough, and permanent.

[Jade Fox]

6. I've come to the conclusion that.....

some people interpret kindness as a sign that you are a sucker who doesn't mind being taken advantage of.

On edit: That doesn't really answer your question. I haven't figured out how to deal with them yet.

[KG]

7. shun them.

[supernova]

8. I lose heart that we would ever have a good rapport

*sigh*