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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 09:07 AM
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When I was a kid (1950's-'60's), kids called adults that we knew, such as
a classmate's parents, "Mr. John," and "Miss Sue."

Anyone else do that?
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zanne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 09:11 AM
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1. I thought that was a southern thing.
Edited on Wed Jan-30-08 09:11 AM by zanne
We used to go by Mr. and Mrs., or Miss _____. (Last name)
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raccoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 09:19 AM
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2. This was in SC. Don't know if kids still do that. nt
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zanne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 09:24 AM
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3. I think it's really cute. nt
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Pithlet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 03:12 PM
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17. It is a southern thing.
I'd never heard it done until I moved down here. It still sounds weird to me, tacking a formal address onto a first name.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 09:27 AM
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4. I still do that
oddly only to females, hmm.

I do imagine I'm spelling it "Ms." as I say it though.

weird.

:hi:
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 10:14 AM
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5. We called them "Mr. Last Name" and "Mrs. Last Name," unless
they were close friends of the family, in which case we called them "Auntie First Name" and "Uncle First Name."
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MANative Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 10:36 AM
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7. We did that too!
I remember when I was about 8 or 9 years old, and the 7 year old daughter of one of these "aunties" kept telling everyone that we were cousins. I told her that we weren't real cousins, just "friend cousins" and she cried for days about it! I guess she forgave me though, because about 10 years later, she introduced me to my husband, to whom I've now been married for 25 years. :)

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LibertyLover Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 02:18 PM
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15. That's what we did in my family too
Edited on Wed Jan-30-08 02:21 PM by LibertyLover
Mr. X or Mrs. Y, but Auntie A and Uncle B if they were good friends of the family. There was only one adult whom I called by her first name when I was child and that was because she specifically asked my mom that I not call her Auntie Artemis because she just didn't like the sound of it, so I called her Artemis like all the adults in the family.

For my own daughter, we do aunt and uncle if they are really close friends and Mr. first name and Mrs. first name if they are not close, for example when I bring her to the office.
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supernova Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 10:19 AM
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6. It's a southern thing I think - We did too in NC
Though there was "Miss Judy" from Romper Room. :-)
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 10:50 AM
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8. If they're long term close friends of the parents, Uncle John or Aunt Jane,
otherwise, Mr., Mrs, or Miss. And wouldn't say it was a Southern thing. I'm Midwest, husband New England and that's how it was.
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karmaqueen Donating Member (417 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:55 AM
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9. still do it here.
Kids still call us "miss" first name & "mr" first name. even some of the transplants have picked it up. I think it is just fine. As long as kids aren't calling me nasty names I'm happy!
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gbate Donating Member (900 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:57 AM
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10. I think it might be a southern thing. When I moved to MD from CT that sounded weird to me.
My mother told me I should refer to adults by their last name.
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Rabrrrrrr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:57 AM
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11. We called them Mr. Lastname or Mrs. or Ms. Lastame
I never called any of my friends parents by their first names until I was in my 30s.
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momophile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:58 AM
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12. that's how it's done at my daughter's daycare
which is not in the South.
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Maestro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:59 AM
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13. My kids do.
And I am in Texas. The only adults called by last name are teachers and anyone involved in education.
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 01:44 PM
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14. We called adults "Mr. or Mrs. X" as kids in the 70s, but I really can't stand that practice.
Edited on Wed Jan-30-08 01:45 PM by Oregonian
It makes me cringe when someone calls me that, and I'm sorry, that type of formality just doesn't sit well with me. My kids' friends would never call me "Mrs. X," and I'm glad about that.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 02:24 PM
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16. I wasn't raised that way, but I'm from California and we have an allergy to formality.
Most of our teachers went by their first names too. :shrug:
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 03:22 PM
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18. We did use formal address. My kids always
call adults "Miss Ann" or "Mr. Mike".

It just sounds better than "um, hey Jenny's mom?"
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