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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:33 PM
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When leaving a job, how polite should one be towards management?
Edited on Tue Jan-06-04 09:34 PM by HypnoToad
Just curious. One person recently resigned in a fit of pique and spoke out against them...

Personally, I want to speak my mind too... but is that for the best?
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aQuArius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:36 PM
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1. Don't burn bridges....
Best advice you'll ever get. You never know when something may come back to haunt you.
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burrowowl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:36 PM
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2. Always be polite
you'll never know if you might meet with them later.
Of course if they are real assholes and you think you don't need their references and you'll never have dealings with them again, you can politely tell them they stink and why.
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kixot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:36 PM
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3. Is mooning out of the question?
Throwing feces is soo primate.
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TheZoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:38 PM
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4. Be honestly polite
I left my job last Friday and started a new one today. I spoke highly of the company and management. The only shortcoming that I had with it (pay nonwithstanding) was that there wasn't enough interaction between management and the employees. And that's how I put it.

It depends on your situation, of course.
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Elidor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:41 PM
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5. Consider that every little bit of politeness could be
Inversely proportional to the time you may spend looking for another job. Work from there.
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Mercurius Donating Member (155 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:52 PM
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6. It's fun to tell them off in your head,
but when you actually do it, you may regret it. Just be polite - disdainfully and icily polite, if you must. :-)
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flama Donating Member (418 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:52 PM
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7. When leaving a job voluntarily,
you shoule be as polite as possible. If there's an exit interview, there's a whole lot of politics going on. Polite but honest is really hard there.

Remember that your last employer is the pipeline to your next employer. Now that you've got one in the middle, it still pays to be polite.
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lcordero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:52 PM
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8. BE VERY VERY VERY POLITE
You don't know when you might need a reference. This is one of those situations where if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say anything at all.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 09:54 PM
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9. Let me add an extra condition:
If I had nothing to lose, then would it be okay to speak my mind?
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A HERETIC I AM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 10:00 PM
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10. If you have nothing to lose, then you have nothing to lose!
Tell em what you think!

But the advice about burning bridges and being generally circumspect still applies.
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maxanne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 10:00 PM
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11. be very sure
that you have nothing to lose now, or ever.

Then go for it!

I once worked (briefly) for a Republican Congressman, at an inn he owned. When I quit, I told his wife that I felt soiled every day I was there, and that they were the most immoral people I'd ever worked for.

My only regret is that I didn't say more!
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lcordero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-06-04 10:09 PM
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12. Nope
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