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5/12/2003 7:43:53 PM | melanie burke]
Mother's Day Court
And she waited and she watched As seasons changed and parents died And lovers moved away And she began having children She had a boy baby Every other year for eight years And all of her possessions grew encircling her Like the rings in a tree. You could walk into her house And see by the layers of dust and old clothes Where one child left off and another began Even if it didn’t work or had grease stains Each little thing was too precious for her to discard.
She had endured so much loss in her life That for her collecting odds and ends and clothes and furniture Was a kind of like her own private bargain with God A prayer uttered long ago and buried deep in her sub conscience.
She hedged all her bets in old playground equipment covering her yard Knowing some things are irreplaceable.
The stacks of things kept growing Some of it was as tall As the child that it had originally belonged to And you could measure their heights in stacks of clothes, toys, and cast off tennis shoes. Outsiders coming in and observing her home Couldn’t see the logic to her storage system at least not the way she saw it in her head.
I could see it and understand some of the intricacies of her life In the careful pathways and passages that wound throughout each room A maze of interesting objects and odd, eclectic things that caught your eyes shining or sparkling or spinning in the corner Broken children’s toys still being banged on , twisted, turned, and played with.
And surely post partum depression played a role in the collection It takes several years for your hormones to settle down But she didn’t have that time between each child But she did have artifacts of each stage of their childhood Laid out in hallways and closets like archeological layers of previous civilizations.
You could see her employment history, too Cast off uniforms from jobs she no longer had Her Grandmothers precious ceramic ashtrays were piled high with plastic name tags From just about every restaurant and retail store within a 50 mile radius Jobs she had, had over the past ten years
In her eagerness to scale the lofty heights of welfare to working class. And jobs she had eventually lost Because of one of her children’s chicken pox, fever, or tricycle accidents And in the bathroom and medicine cabinets was the booty and loot collected From various emergency rooms and doctors offices throughout the city layers of gauze, silk tape, and Scooby or Mickey band-aids Old duck taped crutches in the corner that had belonged to her A reminder of retrieving one of the boys From the top of a swing set He landed on his feet and she hit the ground on her ankle.
And the boys grew up, and built forts, and played cowboys, and police, In the kitchen, bedroom, foyer, hall closet, and family room And they fired water pistols at working appliances, Televisions, computers, and VCRs that soon joined the circle Of junk that continued to grow with each year as new birthday party gifts were received and broken the same day the packages were opened Cast aside in their boxes with the shiny silver wrapping paper crumpled up next to them. Bright red and green bows smiled out next to headless Santa figurines and tangled lights In boxes marked Christmas and never put away because there was no room in storage.
But you know she'd tell me, the stuff was too good to throw away. I always had to agree with her on that point as I surveyed the room And laughed.
There is something everywhere you look Filled curio cabinets, kitchen drawers, dressers, bureaus, cardboard boxes, and paper bags Things on the tops of things like tables, kitchen counters, book cases, and couches broken crayons, kool aid logged coloring books whose pages won't open, Old crafts never finished or started, bags of material and half hemmed pants, school projects with sticky popsicle sticks, petrified fast food french fries take up lots of space in garages and attics. Faces smile out at you from rusty refrigerator magnets, Graduation and school pictures
Messy mother and child-hoods are always more interesting and boisterous
And more irritating to the neighbors, teachers, police, and social workers Who try to hide their own roots And have forgotten about their own eccentric Aunties, Grandmothers, Sisters And their own hard working class Mothers People who filled up their childhoods with hand me down clothes and boxes of broken toys If they were lucky.
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