|
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend Bookmark this thread |
This topic is archived. |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 04:05 AM Original message |
What would you do.... If you had a spouse you dearly loved.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
blonndee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 04:11 AM Response to Original message |
1. I'd clean it myself, that's what I'd do. (Wearing a dust mask, of course.) |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:32 AM Response to Reply #1 |
6. No money and I do't have the stamina to do the work... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:36 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. A housekeeping service is a lot cheaper than a divorce. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:38 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. You are right... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
eyesroll (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:41 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Then it's probably beyond the capabilities of your wife. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:24 PM Response to Reply #9 |
52. how is it beyond...due to dirt or is there some sort of problem |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:29 PM Response to Reply #9 |
55. what about adult protective services or the health dept.? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lucky Luciano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:35 AM Response to Reply #1 |
26. Yes, you are missing something..his wife seems like a selfish |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:30 PM Response to Reply #26 |
56. she may also be depressed or |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lucky Luciano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 04:25 PM Response to Reply #56 |
68. Possible - he did indicate that he did not paint the |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 04:17 AM Response to Original message |
2. Can you afford to hire someone to clean on a regular basis? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:32 AM Response to Reply #2 |
7. Not at this time.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
sbj405 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 08:04 AM Response to Original message |
3. Not sure why you think it's her job to clean. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:31 AM Response to Reply #3 |
5. I have no money,,, |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:53 AM Response to Reply #5 |
20. You can expect charges of sexism, because it sounds sexist... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:09 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. I can't believe you would call it sexist... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #22 |
24. I was agreeing with the above poster that it sounds that way...and.. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 08:15 AM Response to Original message |
4. If you can afford it how about hiring a cleaning |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:39 AM Response to Original message |
10. Here's what I can think of: |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:49 AM Response to Reply #10 |
19. I'm going to my doctor next week.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:39 PM Response to Reply #19 |
59. those things are amazing |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:56 AM Response to Reply #10 |
31. Insurance would probably not cover the cost of a |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
11. does your condition prevent you from cleaning the house yourself? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:43 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. I can do maintenance cleaning... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
buddhamama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:48 AM Response to Reply #13 |
17. you might want to look into |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 01:02 PM Response to Reply #13 |
46. Well the thing is, you can indeed actually "do" the deep cleaning.. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:44 PM Response to Reply #46 |
61. I'm not sure |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
14. I'm thinking |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:47 AM Response to Reply #14 |
16. good suggestions.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:56 AM Response to Reply #16 |
21. talk to her. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:10 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. I am literally and figuratively bklue in the face from talking.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:27 PM Response to Reply #14 |
53. I agree here |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:46 AM Response to Original message |
15. Is there anyway you can recruite friends or family? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 10:48 AM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Yea, my family...... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:00 PM Response to Reply #18 |
33. Have you asked your family to help |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:11 PM Response to Reply #33 |
40. Oh yea, I have asked.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
carlydenise (170 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
25. a little at a time |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:39 AM Response to Reply #25 |
27. I took over the kitchen... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
28. What would you do if you were single and lived alone? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:54 AM Response to Reply #28 |
30. Mu SO is a caring person but is incablable, I believe, of putting |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
nini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:06 PM Response to Reply #30 |
36. You're not asking too much of her |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:44 AM Response to Original message |
29. Get some air filters |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:10 PM Response to Reply #29 |
39. Joani gave me an air filter that works pretty good in my office... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
32. Maybe if your SO had someone to help her |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:10 PM Response to Reply #32 |
38. Yea, one of my SO's friends spent a weekend here |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
ikojo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:40 PM Response to Reply #38 |
45. Just my non professional opinion...but have you |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:02 PM Response to Original message |
34. sounds like you need a major weed out time |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:08 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. I have thrown so much of my stuff out.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:20 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. maybe you can convince her to weed her stuff out. that's where the |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
idgiehkt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:51 PM Response to Reply #37 |
62. it sounds like |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:29 PM Response to Reply #34 |
54. How is that not a threat? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
electron_blue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 03:00 PM Response to Reply #54 |
63. I meant, not in a threatening way, just calmly, rationally. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:05 PM Response to Original message |
35. Talk to your doctor about this. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Whoa_Nelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:22 PM Response to Original message |
42. Hey, babycakes |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
43. There are some very good suggestions here for you, Chris... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Bossy Monkey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
44. A: you need to see a marriage counselor; B: you need to invest in a vacuum |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
XemaSab (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 01:07 PM Response to Original message |
47. So she should clean the house while you go paint? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
48. Have you told her of your problems and concerns? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
49. I'm sorry, hon. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Blue Diadem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
50. If you could possibly dust by yourself, a suggestion on how not to kick up dust |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
51. Can you afford a maid service? |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:32 PM Response to Original message |
57. If you've ever had pneumonia |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
58. Sounds like more than house |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 02:42 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. best advice yet |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 03:40 PM Response to Reply #58 |
64. She doesn't really have to take care of me.... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
CC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 09:35 PM Response to Reply #64 |
69. Venting works, and not |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
65. Sell your house, get a smaller one |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
66. Insurance fraud..... |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-11-06 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
67. Don't do anything you will regret later. |
Printer Friendly | Permalink | | Top |
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) | Sun May 05th 2024, 01:08 AM Response to Original message |
Advertisements [?] |
Top |
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge |
Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators
Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.
Home | Discussion Forums | Journals | Store | Donate
About DU | Contact Us | Privacy Policy
Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.
© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC