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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 07:52 PM Original message |
Males on DU: if you are attracted to a woman, and she tells |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 07:54 PM Response to Original message |
1. Now a woman, that's a female - right? |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 07:55 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Okay my friend |
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Catch22Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 07:59 PM Response to Original message |
3. Depends |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 08:04 PM Response to Original message |
4. I already have enough friends. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 08:07 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. You can never have enough friends. |
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Derailer (332 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:05 PM Response to Reply #4 |
9. word |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:17 PM Response to Reply #4 |
22. What are you saying there? |
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Derailer (332 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:56 PM Response to Reply #22 |
29. Newsflash |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 11:00 PM Response to Reply #29 |
31. Maybe when girls are talking to you |
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Derailer (332 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 11:06 PM Response to Reply #31 |
32. well |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 11:09 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. It's bad form to |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:24 AM Response to Reply #33 |
98. Agreed on all of it n/t |
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ghostsofgiants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:36 PM Response to Reply #32 |
190. I've gotten the "lets be friend" thing a few times and we're still friends |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:52 AM Response to Reply #29 |
37. Huh?!? |
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Hugin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:09 AM Response to Reply #37 |
57. "How To Get Ass" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:21 AM Response to Reply #37 |
69. I love you. |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:58 AM Response to Reply #69 |
77. hey lady! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:02 AM Response to Reply #77 |
81. Terrible! |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:37 AM Response to Reply #81 |
125. I always prefer when people answer the question honestly |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:48 AM Response to Reply #125 |
136. I'm glad you're having a good time of it! |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:21 PM Response to Reply #136 |
145. great! |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:59 AM Response to Reply #37 |
80. LOL! |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:23 AM Response to Reply #29 |
97. You're so off base it isn't funny |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:28 PM Response to Reply #29 |
173. What would you rather we say? (nm) |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:55 AM Response to Reply #4 |
45. Amen to that. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:22 AM Response to Reply #4 |
95. What a horrible thing to say to someone... |
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democracyindanger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:23 PM Response to Reply #95 |
169. Honesty is the best policy. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 08:10 PM Response to Original message |
6. Absolutely. If I'm attracted to a woman |
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Maru Kitteh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:18 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. You - are impossibly wonderful. I don't see myself traveling to FL |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:23 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Looking forward to it. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:19 PM Response to Reply #6 |
24. That's what I think too |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:23 AM Response to Reply #6 |
70. Can you clone yourself? |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:26 PM Response to Reply #70 |
204. That was very nice of you to say. |
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Autonomy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
7. You don't know guys do you? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:09 AM Response to Reply #7 |
87. Yes, but this can often leave to an unsatisying situation that eventually |
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ZombieNixon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 08:13 PM Response to Original message |
8. If she has the integrity to come out and say it without playing games, |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
10. No |
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DoveTurnedHawk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
13. Depends |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
14. Disappear |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:35 PM Response to Original message |
15. I'd still like to be her friend |
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ChoralScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
16. it's a nonissue |
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sendero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
17. How optimistic are you? |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:06 AM Response to Reply #17 |
85. you said |
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Broken_Hero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
18. yeah... |
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SlavesandBulldozers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:13 PM Response to Original message |
19. depends on how hot she is. |
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reyd reid reed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:16 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. 98.6 |
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SlavesandBulldozers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:20 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. that's a good start. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:16 PM Response to Original message |
21. After reading those replies |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:54 AM Response to Reply #21 |
43. Yeah, I think you're right. |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:01 AM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Well |
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leftofthedial (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:18 PM Response to Original message |
23. friends? |
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RoyGBiv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:52 PM Response to Original message |
26. Disappear ... |
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Swede (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:54 PM Response to Original message |
27. Stay friends. |
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Derailer (332 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:58 PM Response to Reply #27 |
30. Shallow, maybe, but happier |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:17 AM Response to Reply #30 |
41. "a steady fuck" ? |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:59 AM Response to Reply #41 |
78. No shit. Why would a decent woman (and I am) be looking |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:25 AM Response to Reply #78 |
103. I suspect they don't want to, either. n/t |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #103 |
109. Agreed n/t |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:31 PM Response to Reply #78 |
146. I'll bet he gets very few women.... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #30 |
108. My, my... your agenda is showing |
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Fountain79 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 10:56 PM Response to Original message |
28. She's not interested... |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 11:09 PM Response to Original message |
34. These days she can go away. |
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WCGreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
35. Got enough friends.... |
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liberaltrucker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-09-06 11:16 PM Response to Original message |
36. Heard that PLENTY of times in my single days |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
38. Depends |
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Robeson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:00 AM Response to Original message |
39. I'm married. My wife has instructed me that I'm not supposed to be.... |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
40. Back when I was single... |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:55 AM Response to Reply #40 |
44. That is good thinking! |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:13 AM Response to Reply #44 |
58. It worked, somewhat |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:14 AM Response to Reply #40 |
93. But did you actually form a friendship or was it a kind of friendly... |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-11-06 08:40 AM Response to Reply #93 |
213. generally friendly terms |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
42. I know you asked for the male's opinion but.... |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 07:58 AM Response to Reply #42 |
46. I'm a female too! |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:22 AM Response to Reply #46 |
53. okay, I am thinking that the spark is there...but evidently in your |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:03 AM Response to Reply #53 |
56. Right, absolutely. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:02 AM Response to Reply #42 |
48. I think you've misunderstood the question. |
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wildhorses (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:18 AM Response to Reply #48 |
52. okay I took it the wrong way... |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:06 AM Response to Original message |
49. Disappear. |
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Tyrone Slothrop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:00 AM Response to Reply #49 |
54. You wrote almost exactly what I was going to |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:24 AM Response to Reply #49 |
99. THIS IS THE RIGHT ANSWER! |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:42 PM Response to Reply #99 |
149. Thank you! Thank you very much! |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:07 AM Response to Original message |
50. she has friends |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 08:12 AM Response to Original message |
51. I would leave town but first I would lie about something to make her sorry |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
55. Never be friends |
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regularguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:15 AM Response to Original message |
59. If you're absolutely crazy about her, |
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giant_robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:16 AM Response to Original message |
60. This is what I hear when a woman says, "Let's just be friends." |
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Hugin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:35 AM Response to Reply #60 |
62. Hear! Hear! |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:05 AM Response to Reply #62 |
84. I disagree about your perception of reality. |
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giant_robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:31 AM Response to Reply #84 |
116. Yes, but if a friend is pursuing you as a romantic interest, |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:42 AM Response to Reply #116 |
133. Hmmm, Oversize Robot. I get what you're saying |
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giant_robot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:39 PM Response to Reply #133 |
147. I see where you're coming from now.. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:51 AM Response to Reply #116 |
140. Don't most people grow out of |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:31 AM Response to Reply #60 |
114. Lots of guys on here who so don't understand women... |
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swag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:27 AM Response to Original message |
61. I'd try to make better friends with her and get over my silly crush. |
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Hugin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:36 AM Response to Reply #61 |
63. . |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:37 AM Response to Reply #61 |
64. ! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:32 AM Response to Reply #61 |
118. Write books... |
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FarLeftRage (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 09:52 AM Response to Original message |
65. I have never been in that situation... |
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One_Life_To_Give (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
66. Depends, Am I looking for a relationship |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:14 AM Response to Original message |
67. Goddess, how these threads depress me. |
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Hugin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:19 AM Response to Reply #67 |
68. See Post #60... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:37 AM Response to Reply #68 |
74. Yeah yeah yeah. n/t |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:33 AM Response to Reply #68 |
119. Yeah, but check out post #30 |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:51 PM Response to Reply #119 |
153. So the comments of one asshole suddenly trump an entire gender? |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:32 AM Response to Reply #67 |
72. For some people, sex really is their only value |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:38 AM Response to Reply #72 |
75. So? |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:55 AM Response to Reply #75 |
76. There is no "rule" that men are only interested in women for sex |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:23 AM Response to Reply #76 |
96. Sorry... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #96 |
110. I think it trails off as people get older |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:31 AM Response to Reply #110 |
113. Strangely, I've never had any difficulty |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:33 AM Response to Reply #113 |
121. Oh yeah--it's usually perfectly obvious to the recipient |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:38 AM Response to Reply #121 |
126. Wouldn't be such a big deal if men were honest about it... |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #96 |
144. Thanks - us guys just love to be called primative |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:41 PM Response to Reply #144 |
148. Huh? I said the *behavior* was primitive. |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:04 AM Response to Reply #72 |
83. Uh, NO. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #83 |
89. Wow--you are by -far- the exception |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:24 AM Response to Reply #89 |
100. It's primitive, stupid behavior. n/t |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:25 AM Response to Reply #100 |
101. No doubt, but we're in many ways a primitive, stupid animal |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:26 AM Response to Reply #101 |
104. Well let's celebrate that! Let's defend it! |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:42 PM Response to Reply #104 |
191. NOT acknowledging it is acting like another kind of animal: |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 03:20 PM Response to Reply #191 |
193. I acknowledge it... |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:30 AM Response to Reply #89 |
111. Ah. I'm not in college anymore. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:33 AM Response to Reply #111 |
120. Yeah, somehow this thread has made me happy to be older |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:39 AM Response to Reply #120 |
128. Wish I could say the same. |
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miss_american_pie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #128 |
131. I have two sons |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:53 PM Response to Reply #83 |
155. I'm agreeing with JPGray - you are the exception |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:30 PM Response to Reply #155 |
174. How old are you? |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:34 PM Response to Reply #174 |
176. 27. |
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crispini (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:45 PM Response to Reply #176 |
180. Huh, you'd think people would start getting over the "shallow" by then. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:59 PM Response to Reply #180 |
185. That's how I feel about women too. |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:06 AM Response to Reply #67 |
86. I'm hearing it, and it doesn't sound any better when you're |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:25 AM Response to Reply #86 |
102. Haha... yes, well we old crones, we already know, don't we? |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:27 AM Response to Reply #102 |
106. I really try to view the differences between the sexes as simply |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:49 PM Response to Reply #67 |
152. Woah, time out there! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:11 PM Response to Reply #152 |
161. Did I say *ALL* guys? |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:34 PM Response to Reply #161 |
175. That's total bullshit. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:39 PM Response to Reply #175 |
178. Sex is a small part of dating? |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:48 PM Response to Reply #178 |
181. Wow... I'm just absolutely baffled by this one. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:51 PM Response to Reply #181 |
182. Yeah, we just don't have the same perspective at all. |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:57 PM Response to Reply #182 |
184. See, physical affection goes FAR beyond sex for me. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
71. Wow. Just wow. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:59 AM Response to Reply #71 |
79. I have plenty of female friends |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:10 AM Response to Reply #71 |
88. Being both the OP and female, I agree with you wholeheartedly. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:12 AM Response to Reply #88 |
91. I just don't see why romantic attraction should always lead to friendship |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:14 AM Response to Reply #91 |
92. Hmmm. I think if romantic attraction doesn't involve friendship |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:20 AM Response to Reply #91 |
94. What is romantic attraction if NOT friendship? |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:26 AM Response to Reply #94 |
105. Sexual attraction |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #105 |
130. That doesn't answer the question |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:27 AM Response to Reply #71 |
107. Oh is this your first, then? |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:44 AM Response to Reply #107 |
134. That was my vain attempt at politeness |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:49 AM Response to Reply #134 |
137. Your sig is SO appropriate. |
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no name no slogan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
73. I would agree to be friends... |
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kiraboo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:11 AM Response to Reply #73 |
90. Okay, where do you live? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
82. I have no desire to be her friend. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:30 AM Response to Reply #82 |
112. who gets to have sex/ a deep relationship with me" pageant |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:31 AM Response to Reply #112 |
115. Good! Give up. I don't understand how the OP's question was somehow... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:34 AM Response to Reply #115 |
122. Lecture? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:47 AM Response to Reply #122 |
135. I'm sorry, I used lecture as a euphemism for "criticize/ complain" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:50 AM Response to Reply #135 |
139. Didn't know criticism was against the rules. |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:31 AM Response to Reply #82 |
117. sort of the Mr. Congeniality prize ????? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:36 AM Response to Reply #117 |
123. Pretty much. Gaining a friendship in that manner is shameful |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:49 AM Response to Reply #123 |
138. "In that manner"? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:43 PM Response to Reply #138 |
150. I didn't get that logic either... |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:53 PM Response to Reply #138 |
154. "In that manner" refers to a guy getting friends in that manner. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:01 PM Response to Reply #154 |
158. Why do you insist upon seeing it as "born in rejection" though? |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:15 PM Response to Reply #158 |
165. Because it's a rejection of my goals for the relationship. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:24 PM Response to Reply #165 |
170. So what you're saying is that you go into relationships in one of two ways |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:43 PM Response to Reply #170 |
179. Actually, it doesn't limit at all. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:00 PM Response to Reply #179 |
186. Vash, you understand everything |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:03 PM Response to Reply #186 |
187. Of course I do |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:46 PM Response to Reply #179 |
192. Well, this is where I get confused |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 03:49 PM Response to Reply #192 |
195. Let me explain myself further then. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 04:01 PM Response to Reply #195 |
196. I guess I just look at things differently |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-11-06 08:32 AM Response to Reply #196 |
211. Hey, everyone sees things differently. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:14 PM Response to Reply #154 |
163. "not good enough to be the boyfriend" |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:21 PM Response to Reply #163 |
168. All those reasons are ways in which the suitor has been judged inadequate |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:24 PM Response to Reply #168 |
171. Chemistry isn't charm, dear JVS. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 04:27 PM Response to Reply #171 |
199. No matter how you cut it, there is a process of evaluation and rejection. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:36 AM Response to Reply #82 |
124. Yes--it can be a bad, dishonest situation all around |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #124 |
129. I think that it is awful that people expect you to want to be friends |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:44 PM Response to Reply #124 |
151. I think the key words here are *high school*. n/t |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
127. I gots me plenty of female friends. In fact, I have more |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:41 AM Response to Reply #127 |
132. Women get rejected too... |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:55 AM Response to Reply #132 |
142. Well, that's rarer. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:58 AM Response to Reply #142 |
143. Excellent points. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 11:52 AM Response to Reply #127 |
141. I also have more female friends than male friends, for what it's worth--nt |
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GirlinContempt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 06:17 PM Response to Reply #127 |
207. Have I mentioned recently how much I |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 12:58 PM Response to Original message |
156. if a guy has a romantic interest in a woman, he can't be "just friends".. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:03 PM Response to Reply #156 |
159. I can go from friend to lover |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:09 PM Response to Reply #159 |
160. for most women, it seems to be just the opposite. |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:15 PM Response to Reply #160 |
164. Wait a minute |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:20 PM Response to Reply #164 |
167. that's why i said that it was ironic. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:18 PM Response to Reply #159 |
166. That's what I would prefer |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
157. Eh, I can't really answer that. Happily married for a long time. |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
162. Word to the wise MAN |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
172. She does not want to be friends. She is just trying not to be ... |
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HEyHEY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:38 PM Response to Reply #172 |
177. yep, it's a hollow suggestion |
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Nicholas D Wolfwood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 01:53 PM Response to Reply #172 |
183. EXACTLY! |
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Ron Mexico (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
188. Before I was married, the answer was "disappear." Such a woman |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #188 |
198. I find these answers so heartbreakingly sad |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:01 PM Response to Reply #198 |
200. Agreed on all points. |
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WritingIsMyReligion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:08 PM Response to Reply #188 |
201. Man-in-the-sky forbid you should listen to her problems. |
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Hardrada (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
189. I ask her if she'll still vote for me. |
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ContraBass Black (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 03:38 PM Response to Original message |
194. I hope that I disappear for a while. |
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Guy Fawkes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
197. It depends... |
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Ekirh (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
202. Honestly I don't know . . |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:23 PM Response to Original message |
203. Being a woman, I am ticked off if a guy stops being my friend |
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Frank Cannon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
205. Be within reach, but just out of her grasp |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-10-06 05:34 PM Response to Reply #205 |
206. Is that really being friends? It seems more like living well to spite... |
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Frank Cannon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-11-06 07:18 AM Response to Reply #206 |
208. There is nothing spiteful about it |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-11-06 07:34 AM Response to Original message |
209. What is wrong with friends of the opposite sex? |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-11-06 08:27 AM Response to Reply #209 |
210. There's nothing wrong with it at all! |
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long_green (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-11-06 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
212. kill her. kill her now. |
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