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I'm keeping a list of gifts I've received from co-workers and clients so that I don't forget to thank anyone formally. So far I have six thank-yous to write. Knowing the people I work with, there will be many more. I appreciate everyone's kindness tremendously. I do not need gifts, and what's more, I am always surprised by them.
I am giving a select few a Christmas card with a personal note and containing a print of one of my best sunset photos. My bosses are getting the same print framed.
My family has already decided to do some christmas-style gift giving in May -- besides Christmas, we ALL (eight of us) of our birthdays are within three months of Christmas. And we are all flat broke. I'm sending them all some photo prints and I'm sure they'll send something little in kind. I'm sending my Dad & uncle the same photo my co-workers are getting (sans frames). I'm also mailing a few photo-cards (not the sunset) to several friends back home.
That's it.
I do not feel obliged to give lots of gifts. I do not feel the stress of Christmas shopping or wrapping or schlepping bags full of presents. I don't worry, "is she going to leave for the holiday before I have time to get her gift together and take it to work?"
I just don't feel that obligation. If someone is put out because I didn't spend money on him/her, that is his/her problem. Not mine.
What are your thoughts? Do you feel obliged? Do you act on that feeling? If you don't feel obliged, how do you react if/when you get attitude?
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