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Okay - do I seem like I am 'slow' and 'incompetent' to you?
No, I didn't think so.
I am currently working in my hometown's bank. I just got back from living abroad for four years after a nasty break-up with my foreign partner forced me back here to Texas (stupid foreign immigration laws!). I am working in the bank for about 2-3 months to save up some money so I can move someplace much better.
Today, after work, which, by the way, on my second day of working unsupervised went perfectly, with no glitches, all adding up and balacing 100% at the end of the day, my supervisor says to me, 'We need to talk' and shuts the door. Uh-oh.
I have sensed for the past week or so that the two people who were training me were a bit ...frustrated. Frustrated that I hadn't immediately been able to do all the functions of a teller (I have been in proper training for three weeks and have never worked in a bank before, plus all the knowledge of banking I have comes from my four years living abroad on my own, and they have different terminology!). They are frustrated when they have to stay late ('late' being anything after 3:30pm - we work roughly 30 hours a week with full benefits) because my totals don't balance and we have to sort out the problem. They are frustrated when I ask them to come over and make sure I am doing a complicated or unusual transaction correctly. I know that they have been rolling their eyes behind my back and I suspected they had told the supervisor that I was frustrating them.
Now, from my side, both my trainers are a bit lackadaisical, and spend about 1/3 of their time either on a personal phone call, wandering around talking to other employees or the supervisor, having an unofficial taco break, etc. They also seemed annoying almost from the very beginning whenever I would ask for clarification or an explanation of WHY we did anything a certain way. One of them told me I was overanalyzing once (hands up - guilty - but the only way for me to be able to fully learn the processes is to understand them!).
Also, both my trainers, and especially the first one, are very defensive about procedures (many of which seem inefficient unecessarily confusing to me, but these are mostly IT issues and beyond our control) and also pretty short-tempered and almost deer-in-the-headlights about some issues that have come up. Case in point: one day, only like a week into my training, the guy I was working with sent me into the back room to microfilm the documents. I had done this before, so no problem. However, this time, one of the pieces of paper got jammed in the machine. Now, as I have never used one of these before and figured this was a routine problem, I went to get my trainer. He rushed into the back room with an air of exasperation, and raised the lid and started removing glass panels and stuff, and finally fished the thing out. I would not have done this at all, as I would be afraid I would put some little part of the machine back wrong and screw it up even worse, right? That was my logic. But he's just like, 'You could've just opened this yourself and gotten it out.' ??? But I didn't want to break the machine! They have an attitude like, 'Why should *I* know what to do?' - but he's been working in this same job for the last SIX years. Doesn't my response sound reasonable to you?
Anyway, according to my supervisor, it's just inexplicable that I am not fully functioning yet independently (like the LAST person that was trained, I might add, who also still has lots of questions and is rumored to be 'slow'). Apparently, I was supposed to have been shippied to our other branch starting Monday to cover someone's vacation, but she told them there was no way as I am 'progressing way to slowly' and if I 'can't handle it here, there is no way' I 'can handle the twice-as-fast pressure over there.' Ok-ay. This is by far the LEAST stressful job I have ever had, especially considering the hours and benefits.
Anyway, apparently there is also some 'tension' between me and the other tellers (news to me, except that I knew they were uspet at having to stay late when training me - but I blame them equally for my screw-ups - wouldn't have happened if they had not been off wandering around, munching on tacos, or if they had actually LISTENED to the questions I was asking about transactions and walked through them with me!).
I have never had any supervisor tell me anything like this before. I outscored everyone in my class on the SAT, including the math portion. I have two degrees, one which required me to write a 15,000-word paper including original research. I have lived in a foreign country for 4 years, and I have been to 13 others. My last job was as a construction planner for a large national residential company (like I said, abroad!). I got promoted up to that level within 14 months, and I started as a temp secretary, my salary going from about $20,000 a year to almost $40,000 with company car, bonus, etc. **Shrug**
How can I be 'slow' and 'incompetent' She said I was slow, but not directly that I was incompetent, only that I might be giving customers the impression that I was incompetent because I asked questions of other tellers in front of them.
Also, what should I do? I really just wanted to say, 'You know what, I don't even WANT to be working here, shove it!'. Instead I just nodded, simultaneously shocked and amused, and said, 'Okay, thank you' at the end. I did defend myself, however, saying that *I* was frustrated at the trainers' attitudes when the only reason I was asking questions is because, unlike them, I have not been a teller for like 10 years and didn't want to majorly screw up anyone's account due to my 'learner' status.
I was thinking I could either quit and just move away now with the $1000 cash I have (but I can't do that because my dad got me this job even though there are no openings at the bank because he is friends with the president - which is another problem, because now my dad will be embarassed if there are rumors that I am 'slow' - but on the up side, they can't really fire me! hahahaha); or I could go in tomorrow and tell my supervisor that, this was really unexpected and, after thinking about it at home, I had some comments; or I could go ahead and give them a resignation letter saying I am leaving on January 31, as per my plans, or I could even up that to December 31; or I could mail them a flaming file of dog poo; or I could accidentally give someone $50,000 in change tomorrow; or I could just be really, really slow and not speak to anyone unless spoken to (while I get along with everyone and they are nice people - or so I thought until this 'tension' thing came up; I don't really 'get' them, per se, as they are your typical small-town Texans, but...). Anyway, it wouldn't pain me to be there in body only all day.
If you got this far, thanks. I just had to vent.
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