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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:23 PM
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Uh yeah, he's getting dumped... (ball n' chain redux)
Ok, he's home, and apparently mad at me...i ruined his day because i was sooooo upset about the fact that my dad might have cancer. Since he doesn't, i was completely out of line to act in such a way...

I told him i'm furious with him, his actions today were both unacceptable and practically unforgivable, and that he can fuck off for the time being, 'cause i'm soooo not speaking to his sorry ass.

Yep, it's over. Sigh.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:23 PM
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1. Man. what an unfeeling cretin
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:23 PM
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2. Yaaaaay Bibaby!!!!!!
He has no right to treat someone like you that way!

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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:25 PM
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6. yeah, he just screamed in my face...
wowza :wow:
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:26 PM
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9. Fuck THAT shit!
He has no friggen right to scream in your face...can he have his stuff out by 10 tonight?

Can I move in instead? :D
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:29 PM
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12. he's never done that before...
i'm shocked, really.

i wanna move! and now!
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:31 PM
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17. Do you have anywhere you could go?
A friends house?

can you kick him out?

how are you going to do the Paris thing btw?
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:34 PM
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20. no, not really
i'm stuck here...guess i'll sleep on da couch.

Paris? i'm all alone for that trip baby...just not sure if i have a ride to the airport now...sigh
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:44 PM
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29. You're only as "stuck" as you choose to be
His screaming at you could be a precursor to further and more violent abuse toward you. It's your choice if you stick around, but that's the whole point...it's all choice.

Good luck! And hope you realize you are never alone as you think you are. There are many other women that have been in your position, (personally have been there...),and there are choices and resources 7/24.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:48 PM
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31. Oh no, i've been down that road
he wouldn't....ever.

I've been in one of those relationships before, and that's not him. In 5 years, this is the first time something like this has occurred, and it will be the last.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:53 PM
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33. Good to hear :-)
Take care!
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biscodawg Donating Member (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:29 PM
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14. your avatar suits your post well
:rofl:
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:24 PM
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3. .
:hug:

mwah!
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:26 PM
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8. ...
:loveya:
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:24 PM
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4. Sorry to hear you're having such problems.
=/
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:25 PM
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5. What a self-centered jerk!
You're better off without him. :thumbsup:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:25 PM
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7. What a jerk!
Good for you not speaking to him... and lucky you if he doesn't follow you around whining for the next 7 hours! :)
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:27 PM
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10. That a key sign that it's over
When there is no sympathy in time of need.....

Why have a partner if they can't feel you pain and expericen your joy.....
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:47 PM
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30. heh, he said
he would have been sympathetic IF my dad had cancer, but otherwise, i'm a loonytune for getting so upset...i mean, hey, it's just my dad, right? :mad:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:17 PM
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40. Fuck the insensative bastard,,,,,,
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:30 PM
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58. that might be the stupidest thing I ever heard
As if worrying about your dad wasn't hard enough in the first place. Some people....... :) :hug:
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