Uh yeah, he's getting dumped... (ball n' chain redux)

[bicentennial_baby]

Ok, he's home, and apparently mad at me...i ruined his day because i was sooooo upset about the fact that my dad might have cancer. Since he doesn't, i was completely out of line to act in such a way...

I told him i'm furious with him, his actions today were both unacceptable and practically unforgivable, and that he can fuck off for the time being, 'cause i'm soooo not speaking to his sorry ass.

Yep, it's over. Sigh.

[GreenPartyVoter]

1. Man. what an unfeeling cretin

[Taverner]

2. Yaaaaay Bibaby!!!!!!

He has no right to treat someone like you that way!

[bicentennial_baby]

6. yeah, he just screamed in my face...

wowza :wow:

[Taverner]

9. Fuck THAT shit!

He has no friggen right to scream in your face...can he have his stuff out by 10 tonight?

Can I move in instead? :D

[bicentennial_baby]

12. he's never done that before...

i'm shocked, really.

i wanna move! and now!

[Taverner]

17. Do you have anywhere you could go?

A friends house?

can you kick him out?

how are you going to do the Paris thing btw?

[bicentennial_baby]

20. no, not really

i'm stuck here...guess i'll sleep on da couch.

Paris? i'm all alone for that trip baby...just not sure if i have a ride to the airport now...sigh

[Whoa_Nelly]

29. You're only as "stuck" as you choose to be

His screaming at you could be a precursor to further and more violent abuse toward you. It's your choice if you stick around, but that's the whole point...it's all choice.

Good luck! And hope you realize you are never alone as you think you are. There are many other women that have been in your position, (personally have been there...),and there are choices and resources 7/24.

[bicentennial_baby]

31. Oh no, i've been down that road

he wouldn't....ever.

I've been in one of those relationships before, and that's not him. In 5 years, this is the first time something like this has occurred, and it will be the last.

[Whoa_Nelly]

33. Good to hear :-)

Take care!

[biscodawg]

14. your avatar suits your post well

:rofl:

[sniffa]

3. .

:hug:

mwah!

[bicentennial_baby]

8. ...

:loveya:

[Hugin]

4. Sorry to hear you're having such problems.

=/

[GOPisEvil]

5. What a self-centered jerk!

You're better off without him. :thumbsup:

[redqueen]

7. What a jerk!

Good for you not speaking to him... and lucky you if he doesn't follow you around whining for the next 7 hours! :)

[WCGreen]

10. That a key sign that it's over

When there is no sympathy in time of need.....

Why have a partner if they can't feel you pain and expericen your joy.....

[bicentennial_baby]

30. heh, he said

he would have been sympathetic IF my dad had cancer, but otherwise, i'm a loonytune for getting so upset...i mean, hey, it's just my dad, right? :mad:

[WCGreen]

40. Fuck the insensative bastard,,,,,,

[Wetzelbill]

58. that might be the stupidest thing I ever heard

As if worrying about your dad wasn't hard enough in the first place. Some people....... :) :hug:

[ET Awful]

11. I don't know the whole story, but . . .

:hug: and . . . kick his sorry ass to the curb!

edit: Okay, I did a search. Definitely kick his sorry ass to the curb, and enjoy your time in Paris.

[gmoney]

13. And the line forms on the right?

...you'll have to let us know when you're considering new applicants. Or supplicants.

Hey, this way you can be footloose and fancy free in Paris! What great timing! I'm sure you'll get much love in the city of lights... all you could handle, probably. ;)

[bicentennial_baby]

15. the line has already started, i think

:P

[ET Awful]

19. Oh, damn, am I too late to get in line?

:)

Should we get you one of these to keep track of the applicants?



:evilgrin:

[bicentennial_baby]

21. haha, you made me laugh!

and yes, we may need that :P

[ET Awful]

28. YAY! I made her laugh!

:woohoo: :woohoo: :bounce:

[Wetzelbill]

59. I just figured...

this would be a good place for me to pop up in this thread. :loveya:

[GOPisEvil]

16. Hey - she needs a moment to mourn.

Check back tomorrow. ;)

:spank:

[bicentennial_baby]

23. *snort*

It's ok...fuck mourning, life is meant to be lived!

[GOPisEvil]

26. *checks flights*

;)

[biscodawg]

18. want me to kill him?

:evilgrin: Seriously that sucks, theres plenty of other fish in the sea.

[RetroLounge]

22. Sorry for the crap you are going through...

Hang in there...

:hug:

RL

p.s. I speak a little french, can I go with? :hi:

[KG]

24. when you're ready for a full grown man, do let me know.

:) :hi:

[bicentennial_baby]

25. you are such a hot radical

...and i do have a thing for older men... :P

[KG]

27. older is an understatement

let me get my walker down from the wall so's i can chase ya around the lounge!

[bicentennial_baby]

34. ....

:rofl:

how old are ya, really?

[KG]

38. 45, and i intend to be 45 for a few more years.

:)

[bicentennial_baby]

39. mmmm, just right

;)

[Gothic Sponge]

32. Damn!

I'm sorry you are going through this....How insensitive!

:hug:

[bicentennial_baby]

35. thanks man!

and again, good to see you! sorry it had to be under these circumstances :P

[matcom]

36. throw his SHIT out on the lawn

and kick him in the ass on the way out the door!

:yourock:

[bicentennial_baby]

37. i want to, really

but i'm so fucking tired after this day, i don't think i can muster the energy...but if you know anyone who wants to drive me from Western MA to JFK next Thursday, let me know! :P

[Left_Winger]

41. I vote for throwing it in the dumpster.

[bicentennial_baby]

44. Hey, I have a dumpster!

Great idea! Keep my lawn nice and pretty. :P

[no name no slogan]

42. damn what an idiot

What an insensitive dickhead. He's not good enough for you. You can do so much better-- you DESERVE better.

You know what to do. It sucks, but you're strong enough. Best of luck to you sweetie :hug:

[Fenris]

43. Nice, baby!

:thumbsup:

Good for you.

[noiretextatique]

45. good for you

even possible cancer has a way of ruining people's days :eyes:
he's mad at you...you were out of line?!?! :wtf:
i don't know the whole story but: good riddance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and have a great time in paris :hi:

[bicentennial_baby]

46. yeah, and i didn't get him weed

:eyes:

Yes, good riddance indeed. And i will have an incredibly good time in Paris...without him! :P

[noiretextatique]

47. he's unbelievably selfish

make sure you are selfish in paris :thumbsup:

[bicentennial_baby]

48. Oh, i plan on it...

most def. :D

[Briarius]

49. That sucks dude,

:hug: Look at the bright side, you're going to Paris!

[Wetzelbill]

50. So......I'm available.....

Just thought I'd throw that out there. :)

::cricketschirping::

[4_Legs_Good]

51. What a total jerkwad thing to do...

I'm glad you've decided. I know it's usually tough and a pain in the ass, but if he's being such a jerk, hopefully it makes it easier.

Is he at least a good progressive?

david

[greatauntoftriplets]

52. I hope he's not going to Paris with you....

You'd end up with bad memories of a beautiful city.

[Maddy McCall]

53. Same thing I'm thinking.

I hope BB is going alone or with friends.

[Bunny]

54. I think she said in another thread that she was going solo.

At the very least, dickhead isn't going along!

[Maddy McCall]

55. Good!

Where's the WHEW! icon. :D

[greatauntoftriplets]

56. Thanks, Bunny....

That would so totally ruin the trip.

[bicentennial_baby]

62. "All by myself...." :)

Hehe, yeah, i'm all alone for this trip...wOOt!

[foreigncorrespondent]

57. bicentennial_baby...

...I don't know the full story, but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am. Number one for your dads health scare, and number two for the trouble your not so significant other is giving you.

During my days of living a lie and being in a straight relationship, my sister fell pregant with twins. Anyway, to cut a long story short, one of the twins were still born. That death hit not just my sister and her husband, but me as well. I took it very hard.

The night I had the news I was getting ready for bed, my then other half turned and said to me (and I quote) "I have no fucking idea what you are so upset about this, Tina. It isn't like you knew the kid or anything." Those words destroyed me, and words I have never forgotten.

If the person you love cannot support you through a trying time, then that person isn't worth your love and affection. I wish you luck with what ever you decide. :)

[Wetzelbill]

60. Oh wow....

I'm so sorry you had to endure that. Some people are so insensitive, and you wonder how you could have missed that in someone after all that time? You gave good advice though. If the person you love can't support you when you need to, then get out of dodge. I do hope things are going well for you now, though.

[foreigncorrespondent]

63. Thanks, Wetzelbill...

...things are going good. I have been with Sapphocrat for the last five years. Even though the majority of our time together has been spent in two separate countries, and we have endured through some really rough patches, I couldn't be more happy with a partner than her. :)

[Wetzelbill]

65. good for you

I'm glad. :)

[bicentennial_baby]

61. Hey thanks FC

What a horrible thing to say! :hug:

[foreigncorrespondent]

64. Yeah it was...

...and what your guy is putting you through isn't so nice either. You hang in their woman. And remember we are all here for you. :hug: