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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:23 PM
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Uh yeah, he's getting dumped... (ball n' chain redux)
Ok, he's home, and apparently mad at me...i ruined his day because i was sooooo upset about the fact that my dad might have cancer. Since he doesn't, i was completely out of line to act in such a way...

I told him i'm furious with him, his actions today were both unacceptable and practically unforgivable, and that he can fuck off for the time being, 'cause i'm soooo not speaking to his sorry ass.

Yep, it's over. Sigh.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:23 PM
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1. Man. what an unfeeling cretin
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:23 PM
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2. Yaaaaay Bibaby!!!!!!
He has no right to treat someone like you that way!

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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:25 PM
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6. yeah, he just screamed in my face...
wowza :wow:
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:26 PM
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9. Fuck THAT shit!
He has no friggen right to scream in your face...can he have his stuff out by 10 tonight?

Can I move in instead? :D
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:29 PM
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12. he's never done that before...
i'm shocked, really.

i wanna move! and now!
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Taverner Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:31 PM
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17. Do you have anywhere you could go?
A friends house?

can you kick him out?

how are you going to do the Paris thing btw?
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:34 PM
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20. no, not really
i'm stuck here...guess i'll sleep on da couch.

Paris? i'm all alone for that trip baby...just not sure if i have a ride to the airport now...sigh
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:44 PM
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29. You're only as "stuck" as you choose to be
His screaming at you could be a precursor to further and more violent abuse toward you. It's your choice if you stick around, but that's the whole point...it's all choice.

Good luck! And hope you realize you are never alone as you think you are. There are many other women that have been in your position, (personally have been there...),and there are choices and resources 7/24.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:48 PM
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31. Oh no, i've been down that road
he wouldn't....ever.

I've been in one of those relationships before, and that's not him. In 5 years, this is the first time something like this has occurred, and it will be the last.
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Whoa_Nelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:53 PM
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33. Good to hear :-)
Take care!
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biscodawg Donating Member (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:29 PM
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14. your avatar suits your post well
:rofl:
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:24 PM
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3. .
:hug:

mwah!
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:26 PM
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8. ...
:loveya:
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Hugin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:24 PM
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4. Sorry to hear you're having such problems.
=/
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:25 PM
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5. What a self-centered jerk!
You're better off without him. :thumbsup:
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:25 PM
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7. What a jerk!
Good for you not speaking to him... and lucky you if he doesn't follow you around whining for the next 7 hours! :)
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:27 PM
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10. That a key sign that it's over
When there is no sympathy in time of need.....

Why have a partner if they can't feel you pain and expericen your joy.....
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:47 PM
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30. heh, he said
he would have been sympathetic IF my dad had cancer, but otherwise, i'm a loonytune for getting so upset...i mean, hey, it's just my dad, right? :mad:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:17 PM
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40. Fuck the insensative bastard,,,,,,
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:30 PM
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58. that might be the stupidest thing I ever heard
As if worrying about your dad wasn't hard enough in the first place. Some people....... :) :hug:
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:28 PM
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11. I don't know the whole story, but . . .
Edited on Wed Jul-20-05 05:31 PM by ET Awful
:hug: and . . . kick his sorry ass to the curb!

edit: Okay, I did a search. Definitely kick his sorry ass to the curb, and enjoy your time in Paris.
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gmoney Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:29 PM
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13. And the line forms on the right?
...you'll have to let us know when you're considering new applicants. Or supplicants.

Hey, this way you can be footloose and fancy free in Paris! What great timing! I'm sure you'll get much love in the city of lights... all you could handle, probably. ;)

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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:30 PM
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15. the line has already started, i think
:P
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:32 PM
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19. Oh, damn, am I too late to get in line?
Edited on Wed Jul-20-05 05:32 PM by ET Awful
:)

Should we get you one of these to keep track of the applicants?



:evilgrin:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:35 PM
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21. haha, you made me laugh!
and yes, we may need that :P
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ET Awful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:43 PM
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28. YAY! I made her laugh!
:woohoo: :woohoo: :bounce:
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:32 PM
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59. I just figured...
this would be a good place for me to pop up in this thread. :loveya:
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:30 PM
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16. Hey - she needs a moment to mourn.
Check back tomorrow. ;)

:spank:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:36 PM
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23. *snort*
It's ok...fuck mourning, life is meant to be lived!
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:40 PM
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26. *checks flights*
;)
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biscodawg Donating Member (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:31 PM
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18. want me to kill him?
:evilgrin: Seriously that sucks, theres plenty of other fish in the sea.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:35 PM
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22. Sorry for the crap you are going through...
Hang in there...

:hug:

RL

p.s. I speak a little french, can I go with? :hi:
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:37 PM
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24. when you're ready for a full grown man, do let me know.
:) :hi:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:40 PM
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25. you are such a hot radical
...and i do have a thing for older men... :P
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:43 PM
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27. older is an understatement
let me get my walker down from the wall so's i can chase ya around the lounge!

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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:55 PM
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34. ....
:rofl:

how old are ya, really?
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:00 PM
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38. 45, and i intend to be 45 for a few more years.
:)
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:01 PM
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39. mmmm, just right
;)
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Gothic Sponge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:51 PM
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32. Damn!
I'm sorry you are going through this....How insensitive!

:hug:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:56 PM
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35. thanks man!
and again, good to see you! sorry it had to be under these circumstances :P
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matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 05:57 PM
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36. throw his SHIT out on the lawn
and kick him in the ass on the way out the door!

:yourock:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:00 PM
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37. i want to, really
but i'm so fucking tired after this day, i don't think i can muster the energy...but if you know anyone who wants to drive me from Western MA to JFK next Thursday, let me know! :P
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Left_Winger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:18 PM
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41. I vote for throwing it in the dumpster.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:45 PM
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44. Hey, I have a dumpster!
Great idea! Keep my lawn nice and pretty. :P
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no name no slogan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:27 PM
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42. damn what an idiot
What an insensitive dickhead. He's not good enough for you. You can do so much better-- you DESERVE better.

You know what to do. It sucks, but you're strong enough. Best of luck to you sweetie :hug:
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Fenris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:32 PM
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43. Nice, baby!
Edited on Wed Jul-20-05 06:32 PM by Fenris
:thumbsup:

Good for you.
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:51 PM
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45. good for you
even possible cancer has a way of ruining people's days :eyes:
he's mad at you...you were out of line?!?! :wtf:
i don't know the whole story but: good riddance!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and have a great time in paris :hi:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:56 PM
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46. yeah, and i didn't get him weed
:eyes:

Yes, good riddance indeed. And i will have an incredibly good time in Paris...without him! :P
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noiretextatique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:59 PM
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47. he's unbelievably selfish
make sure you are selfish in paris :thumbsup:
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 06:59 PM
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48. Oh, i plan on it...
most def. :D
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Briarius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:03 PM
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49. That sucks dude,
:hug: Look at the bright side, you're going to Paris!
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:05 PM
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50. So......I'm available.....
Just thought I'd throw that out there. :)

::cricketschirping::
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4_Legs_Good Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:14 PM
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51. What a total jerkwad thing to do...
I'm glad you've decided. I know it's usually tough and a pain in the ass, but if he's being such a jerk, hopefully it makes it easier.

Is he at least a good progressive?

david
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:15 PM
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52. I hope he's not going to Paris with you....
You'd end up with bad memories of a beautiful city.
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:19 PM
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53. Same thing I'm thinking.
I hope BB is going alone or with friends.

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Bunny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:33 PM
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54. I think she said in another thread that she was going solo.
At the very least, dickhead isn't going along!
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Maddy McCall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:34 PM
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55. Good!
Where's the WHEW! icon. :D
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greatauntoftriplets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 07:59 PM
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56. Thanks, Bunny....
That would so totally ruin the trip.

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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:41 PM
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62. "All by myself...." :)
Hehe, yeah, i'm all alone for this trip...wOOt!
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:26 PM
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57. bicentennial_baby...
...I don't know the full story, but I wanted to tell you how sorry I am. Number one for your dads health scare, and number two for the trouble your not so significant other is giving you.

During my days of living a lie and being in a straight relationship, my sister fell pregant with twins. Anyway, to cut a long story short, one of the twins were still born. That death hit not just my sister and her husband, but me as well. I took it very hard.

The night I had the news I was getting ready for bed, my then other half turned and said to me (and I quote) "I have no fucking idea what you are so upset about this, Tina. It isn't like you knew the kid or anything." Those words destroyed me, and words I have never forgotten.

If the person you love cannot support you through a trying time, then that person isn't worth your love and affection. I wish you luck with what ever you decide. :)
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:36 PM
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60. Oh wow....
I'm so sorry you had to endure that. Some people are so insensitive, and you wonder how you could have missed that in someone after all that time? You gave good advice though. If the person you love can't support you when you need to, then get out of dodge. I do hope things are going well for you now, though.
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-21-05 01:17 AM
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63. Thanks, Wetzelbill...
...things are going good. I have been with Sapphocrat for the last five years. Even though the majority of our time together has been spent in two separate countries, and we have endured through some really rough patches, I couldn't be more happy with a partner than her. :)
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Wetzelbill Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-21-05 01:36 AM
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65. good for you
I'm glad. :)
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jul-20-05 08:39 PM
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61. Hey thanks FC
What a horrible thing to say! :hug:
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foreigncorrespondent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jul-21-05 01:19 AM
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64. Yeah it was...
...and what your guy is putting you through isn't so nice either. You hang in their woman. And remember we are all here for you. :hug:
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