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Sean Reynolds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:02 AM Original message |
I just found out my girlfriend is a meth user and pregnant. |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:03 AM Response to Original message |
1. Sorry to hear it |
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Maestro (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 10:47 AM Response to Reply #1 |
67. Time for an intervention |
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imenja (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:04 AM Response to Original message |
2. I'm so sorry |
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fujiyama (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:06 AM Response to Original message |
3. That's terrible |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:07 AM Response to Original message |
4. Sean, I know you aren't going to want to hear this... |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:16 AM Response to Reply #4 |
11. Hear hear. |
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SKKY (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 04:48 AM Response to Reply #4 |
43. What??? Walk away??? Are you kidding??? |
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Richard Steele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:27 AM Response to Reply #43 |
52. DAMN right you better RUN! |
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BlackVelvetElvis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
5. Damn. You have every right to be pissed. |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
6. Well take this advice. |
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bridgit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:10 AM Response to Original message |
7. not good |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
8. walk away- now!!! |
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Amfortas (625 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:14 AM Response to Original message |
9. Yes...she's mixed up right now ......she needs someone.... |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:33 AM Response to Reply #9 |
18. If the GF had come forward with this information, that'd be one thing |
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burrowowl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:37 AM Response to Reply #9 |
21. She needs professional help |
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traco (579 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:41 AM Response to Reply #9 |
23. She needs the baby's daddy...she has no right to expect |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:16 AM Response to Original message |
10. Whoa! Tough predicament. |
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Floogeldy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:18 AM Response to Reply #10 |
12. It is not that tough |
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WatchWhatISay (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:19 AM Response to Original message |
13. Some missing information |
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Sean Reynolds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 02:19 AM Response to Reply #13 |
33. I'm not sure I do love her. |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 04:48 AM Response to Reply #33 |
42. If you relent and allow her in your life expect many more years... |
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huellewig (700 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:12 AM Response to Reply #33 |
49. If you think you might have been in love.. |
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Lexingtonian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:25 AM Response to Original message |
14. well, she needs help now |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:35 AM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Re-read what he said. |
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Elidor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:26 AM Response to Original message |
15. Walk away, man. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:27 AM Response to Original message |
16. Sean, you need to talk to someone |
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HamstersFromHell (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:30 AM Response to Original message |
17. My advice. |
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WindRavenX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:35 AM Response to Original message |
20. Do talk to a counselor |
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norml (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:40 AM Response to Original message |
22. Some people do meth for a while, then realize how addictive, and |
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bilgewaterbill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:41 AM Response to Original message |
24. Just a thought... |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:47 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Maybe. I imagine there's a confrontation coming soon... |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:49 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. No, I think you've got it right.. |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:50 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. That was my take on it, yeah (eom) |
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Sean Reynolds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 02:16 AM Response to Reply #24 |
32. I talked to my girlfriend tonight. |
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flaminbats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:57 AM Response to Original message |
28. try taking a break from dating |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 01:58 AM Response to Original message |
29. You haven't responded to any post here, |
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Sean Reynolds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 02:15 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. I was on the phone with her. |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 03:41 AM Response to Reply #31 |
38. BTW, I'm glad you did this. |
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Sean Reynolds (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
30. Thanks everyone for the advice...I've called her. |
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enigmatic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 02:22 AM Response to Reply #30 |
34. You did. |
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hickman1937 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 02:26 AM Response to Reply #30 |
35. You've got hard choices. |
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Technowitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 03:39 AM Response to Reply #30 |
36. *hugs* You did the right thing, Sean |
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CubsFan1982 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 03:41 AM Response to Reply #30 |
37. You did do the right thing. |
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NickB79 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 04:25 AM Response to Reply #30 |
40. You are a stronger man than I |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 08:03 AM Response to Reply #30 |
55. You just saved your own life. |
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Discord (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 09:17 AM Response to Reply #30 |
62. You did the right thing. |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 04:22 AM Response to Original message |
39. Heart aches and heart break. They don't call them users for nothing! |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 04:26 AM Response to Original message |
41. I don't think you should cut yourself off completely from her. |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 05:06 AM Response to Reply #41 |
45. Uh, she's a cheater and drug abuser. That's not the best sort of friend... |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 05:48 AM Response to Reply #45 |
46. That doesn't mean he doesn't care about her. |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:01 AM Response to Reply #46 |
47. That sounds wonderful, but... I've known several drug abusers... |
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Guaranteed (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:12 AM Response to Reply #47 |
50. So have I. In fact, at one point |
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BikeWriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:20 AM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Being a friend or family of an abuser is tough. :-( |
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Wonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 04:51 AM Response to Original message |
44. Maybe her mom was lying? No evidence on that, of course... |
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Borgnine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:05 AM Response to Original message |
48. I'm sorry to hear that. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 06:48 AM Response to Original message |
53. You might consider getting yourself tested, too. |
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katinmn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 07:38 AM Response to Original message |
54. This person could screw up your life in a big way |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
56. Did you really not suspect any of this before talking to her mother? |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 08:39 AM Response to Original message |
57. Cut & Run! |
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Pert_UK (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 08:40 AM Response to Original message |
58. Mate, I think you've done the right thing....... |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
59. Get tested. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
60. Sean, Run. Run as fast as you can. |
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Discord (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 09:10 AM Response to Original message |
61. agreed. |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 09:47 AM Response to Original message |
63. This is a toxic relationship YOU have to walk away from and get out of |
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funkybutt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 10:13 AM Response to Original message |
64. In My Experience, NO meth user can be trusted |
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Hobarticus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
65. Sean, I have been down that road...RUN |
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Brewman_Jax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
66. Do not ignore the signs |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Mar-17-05 11:22 AM Response to Original message |
68. Do NOT fall into the "knight in shining armor" trap |
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