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Edited on Tue Mar-08-05 12:36 PM by Blue_Roses
now? Do you think the "cliques" in high school were just snobs or emotionally insecure?
I don't mean groups that get together for fun and common interest, that's totally different. I mean "cliques" that shun, ignore, or are just down right mean to anyone (actually sounds like the republican party, but that's another thread:D) besides their group. Here's an example:
I substitute teach at one particular school on a regular basis and I see all kinds of things going from one classroom to another each day. On one particular day, I noticed this very bright out-going girl who was crying at recess. When I asked her why she said, "so and so group wouldn't let her play" (elementary school here). This is one of the brightest, kindess kids in the school. Ironically, she is one of the most popular. I've never had any trouble with her and she is helpful not just to the teachers, but to other kids, especially one child in her class who is physically handicapped.
I have to wonder...all this time when some of us were worried about not being accepted in the so-called "popular" clique, maybe we should be glad. When I was in high school, ironically it was the kindess who was the most popular and not the ones in the "cliques"...hmmm...I look back at where some of those who were in the "in" crowd are now and after seeing then at my 20th reunion, they aren't "in" any crowd. Many have lost their way.
Something to think about for those with kids who are facing this now. The "in" crowd may not be all that "in" in the real world.;)
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