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Jokinomx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 04:49 PM
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Poll question: Is your name gender specific?
As John is for a boy... or Deborah for a girl. Can it be used for either.... such as Terry.
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RaleighNCDem Donating Member (152 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 04:52 PM
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1. My name is unique, but people tend to think it is a man's name.
Edited on Tue Feb-01-05 04:53 PM by RaleighNCDem
It's only a female name as far as I know though. In college, I always got the postcards from Playboy. I was the only one in the girl dorm to get them.

edit: spelling error
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Jokinomx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:22 PM
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6. My name is Kim....
Most automatically think it is a girls name... but... there are a few of us male Kims out there. This summer I worked for our city recreation department and I told a young boy about ten years old that my name was Kim and he didn't believe me. I had to show him my drivers license.

I used to hate my name as a kid...but as I grew older I enjoy having an unusual name.
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davidinalameda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 04:53 PM
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2. David is pretty gender specific
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Bronco69 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:01 PM
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3. I was on a plane last week and a group of women were travelling
together. One of them kept saying, "Sam" and I kept turning my head. She was talking to one of the other ladies. So I guess my name is gender nonspecific. :-)
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 08:57 AM
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40. No it isn't. But your nickname is. (nt)
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TheMightyFavog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:05 PM
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4. Never heard of a woman named James.
End of Line.
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StrongbadTehAwesome Donating Member (623 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:39 PM
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15. Her name is James.


But she (James King) is the only female James I've ever heard of.
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Lavender Brown Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:08 PM
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5. Yes and no
Christina yes... Chris no.
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Maine-ah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:34 PM
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12. my sister's name is Christine
and we call her Chris.
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Sympleesmshn Donating Member (460 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 08:29 PM
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22. same here
Christopher yes, but most people call me Chris.
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guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:22 PM
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7. Not at all
I believe Leslie was a male name before it became popular as a female name. I go by "Les" for short, I think most male Leslies tend to do so.
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Jokinomx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:37 PM
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13. I once ran into a guy named Fay....
I never ever thought that a guy would be named Fay... I guess the surprize that I had....was simular to those that aren't familar with Kim as a male name....

I have known a few Leslie boys...I also know a Les who is a friend of my Father in Law.... but I don't know if he is Leslie or Lester.
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New Earth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 06:35 PM
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21. weird
never met a male Fay.....but then again i haven't many female Faye's either.

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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:14 PM
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28. Wasn't there an MLB Commissioner named Fay, or Faye? n/t
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Piltdown13 Donating Member (829 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:22 PM
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31. Yes, it was
In fact, two of the first three Leslies I knew (other than myself) were men -- the band director and PE teacher at my elementary school! We haven't preserved the male/female distinction in spelling in this country, which means that (a) I still get mail addressing me as "Mr." (I can always tell who's sold their mailing list!) including subscription offers from Playboy, and (b) when I spent a semester in London, most of the folks I met thought it amusing to inform me that I was spelling my name incorrectly -- apparently over there, females still spell it "Lesley."

And I hate hate hate it when people call me "Les," for the reason you mention -- it's a male nickname! But I like the fact that the name never became all that popular (not to the level of names like Jennifer), and it may turn out to be a blessing in disguise, career-wise, that people can't tell for certain upon reading my name that I
m a woman.
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HawkerHurricane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 08:07 AM
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36. Leslie was a male name
It seems to be the custom in modern times to adapt male names as female names, and Leslie is a example of that. Leslie Groves would be surprised that people thought he was female in my last history class...
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eyepaddle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:26 PM
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8. Basically male, but one with
an obvious femal counterpart: Dennis/Denise. Denny could go either way--but I do't generally use Denny.
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jus_the_facts Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:27 PM
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9. female name...but it's also a last name....and...
...the name of a village in England....Amberley...but I go by Amber so that's pretty female gender specific! :D
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Longgrain Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:29 PM
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10. The only women I know who have been called Peter
Edited on Tue Feb-01-05 05:30 PM by Longgrain
have been actresses playing Peter Pan...

"I can fly, I can FLY"

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ceile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:32 PM
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11. Either-depending on spelling
Erin or Aaron
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:37 PM
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14. I have never heard of a man with my name.
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StrongbadTehAwesome Donating Member (623 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:41 PM
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16. It's one of those with male/female versions
Edited on Tue Feb-01-05 05:42 PM by StrongbadTehAwesome
(Nicholas/Nicole)

but I'm weird and generally go by Nic, which I've only otherwise heard as a male nickname.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:47 PM
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17. never heard of a boy named Sue
oh wait.........:D

my name is Susan but my family calls me Sue (dad called me Susie)
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Anarcho-Socialist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:54 PM
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18. I think Ryan is gender specific
:)
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Mr. McD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 05:56 PM
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19. I have a cousin named Lynn, I new a guy named Carol
Edited on Tue Feb-01-05 05:56 PM by Mr. McD
My name needs an i added to the end to be feminine. Stepheni
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lpbk2713 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 06:20 PM
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20. My first name is but my last name could be either.
Not to be too specific but it's like Lee or Kelly or Lynn. You get the idea.
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RevolutionaryActs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 08:31 PM
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23. I hope I never meet a man with my name.
I would feel bad for him. :evilfrown:
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sundog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 08:36 PM
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24. yes... unless you've met a woman named Stephen
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ldf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 08:52 PM
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25. for the longest time the only other person i knew
with my name was dale, as in evans.

maybe that was the start of it.

:-)
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:05 PM
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26. Yep, it's girly.
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sendero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:07 PM
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27. I'm a Billy..
... I suppose there is Billie, a female version.
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qnr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:15 PM
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29. No. My sister and I are both Terr(i/y) n/t
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Flammable Materials Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:16 PM
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30. Daryl. It can go either way. n/t
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:36 PM
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32. Mine isn't
most guys named Robin seem to be British though.

I remember being teased about Robin of "Batman&Robin" being a guy when I was a little girl. And of course about flying south and red breasts and all...
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last_texas_dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:48 PM
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33. First name is
I've never heard of a female with my first name. My last name, however, is a girl's name, although used by males very rarely.
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intheflow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Feb-01-05 09:49 PM
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34. The gender of my name depends on where you live on the planet.
Here, it's generally a female name.
In Japan, it's male.
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Jokinomx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 06:14 AM
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35. A very interesting final tally....
Dead even.... thanks everyone for your comments. I really enjoyed reading about your first names. Lets see if the tie can be broken with one more kick from me....before I head of to work...cya.
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NGU Donating Member (272 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 08:28 AM
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37. My name is gender specific
but my nickname can be used for either sex. I don't know how much you know about birth order research, but as a typical only or first born, I don't like to be called my nickname. I love my full name though.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 08:35 AM
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38. You referenced my name...Terry is androgynous
And the spelling...Terry...can be used for both men and women, unlike Terri or Teri.
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 08:53 AM
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39. Male....
Though with a female variation, Donald/Donna
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kick-ass-bob Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-02-05 08:59 AM
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41. I had a Shannon for a roommate in college
he was a boy.
:)
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