Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

I saw my sister-in-law naked...

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:08 AM
Original message
I saw my sister-in-law naked...
...completely by accident the other day. Should I tell her or my wife? It would realy embarass her and even though my wife has no problem with porn or anything, the fact that it was her sister may make her feel weird.

She was taking a shower in our bedroom bathroom. I did not know. The door was open and she was getting out. I saw her in the bedroom mirror that sits on the wall opposite the bathroom. She did not know I saw her. I haven't said anything aboiut it.

Should I tell anyone or just keep it to myself? My initial reaction was no harm, no foul. What do you think?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
YellowRubberDuckie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:09 AM
Response to Original message
1. Keep it to yourself.
Wait about five years then it's ok to tell...but I don't think anything good would come of this.
Duckie
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
trotsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:09 AM
Response to Original message
2. If it's going to bother you, you'd better say something.
If not, I'd go with "no harm, no foul." Especially if you enjoyed the view. ;-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:10 AM
Response to Reply #2
4. it was quite nice.
I must admit. :-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:10 AM
Response to Original message
3. Keep your mouth shut.
Sounds likes you wouldn't feel so bad if you didn't like what you saw, but still, suck it up and say nothing. It'll make everyone feel weird for no reason.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
calico1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:12 AM
Response to Original message
5. Keep your mouth shut!
Why risk starting anything if nobody knows about it?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:14 AM
Response to Reply #5
7. that is my thinking...
...I just want to make sure I'm not just being a perv or something. :-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mseang Donating Member (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:19 AM
Response to Reply #7
11. You are a man...
They already think you are a perv. :evilgrin:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:55 AM
Response to Reply #11
23. Think?
No, know.

Not a perv. Just a guy.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
American Tragedy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:13 AM
Response to Original message
6. Why would you tell either of them at all?
What does anybody gain from hearing about it?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:15 AM
Response to Reply #6
8. you're right...
...but like I said, I just want to do the "right thing" and wasn't sure.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Beware the Beast Man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:16 AM
Response to Original message
9. Write a letter to Penthouse.
And embellish the story a bit.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:56 AM
Response to Reply #9
24. BEAST, uh I mean BEST answer! (nt)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
trotsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:08 AM
Response to Reply #9
30. "Dear Penthouse Magazine...
"I had always read your letters and never thought anything like that would ever happen to me. Well, one day, I came home from work early..."

It practically writes itself!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
mseang Donating Member (66 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:18 AM
Response to Original message
10. Big Deal...
It was just another human body. If you believe your wife or sister-in-law may be bothered by it I wouldn't tell, but otherwise tell. It it was more than 24 hours ago, you better keep it to yourself. Waiting longer than that may not look good.

Whose responsibility is it to close the bathroom door? The person that just happens to pass by, or the person in the bathroom. Of course there may be a problem if she intentionally left the door open for you to see. ;-)

Be glad she didn't look in the mirror at the same time you did. Than you would be in trouble to spying on her. :)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
matcom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:19 AM
Response to Original message
12. Dear Penthouse Forum,
I never thought I would ever write a letter like this.....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:19 AM
Response to Original message
13. Locking.
No sex threads.

:D
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
demosincebirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:20 AM
Response to Original message
14. Why would you want to tell anyone?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
brainshrub Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:24 AM
Response to Original message
15. Did you get any pictures?
Post them here so we may see what she looks like and give you better advice.

If you don't have a picture, I suggest you install some cameras in her bedroom.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
blueknight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:27 AM
Response to Reply #15
16. invite me over,
next time she showers, i will observe, and make a rational decision :evilgrin:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NJ_Lib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:29 AM
Response to Original message
17. Forgive me if I'm wrong but...

... I get the vibe that this incident triggered something in your head that you did not like... Opened the door to the "other side", if you will... If you can't get this vision out of your head, I would say you've got bigger problems than if to tell or not...

Do not tell your wife or her sister, at any cost... What for? What in the world would this accomplish? I get the feeling you WANT the sister to know what you saw... Ask yourself why this had such an impact on you...

If I'm wrong, please forgive me...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Renew Deal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:29 AM
Response to Original message
18. Is she hot?
If yes, it's a happy memory and don't mention it.

If no, purge ti from your mind immediately. Either way, there's no reason to cause a stir.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
underpants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:54 AM
Response to Reply #18
22. See THAT is the question
:bounce:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
WildClarySage Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:35 AM
Response to Original message
19. Good Goddess no!
Not unless you really want to hurt two women at one go.

And if you need "confession", go to a therapist. Especially if this innocent incident bothers you so much.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:39 AM
Response to Reply #19
20. No offense to anyone...
Edited on Tue Dec-07-04 08:42 AM by gtp1976
...but why is everyone assuming that seeing her naked bothers me? I was just wondering out loud if I should mention it. The reason I am reluctant to say anything is that I'm worried it might bother them. I got a kick out of it myself. Perhaps it was a dumb (ala obvious answer) question.

Did I get a cheap thrill out of it? Hell yes. Would I ever cheat on my wife? Absolutely not. Well, only with myself. LOL

Now if it had been my mother-in-law, I would probably need professional help. :-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Doctor_J Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:57 AM
Response to Reply #20
25. Depends - will you be lurking around the bathroom for
the next few days, hoping for a, um, curtain call? If not, just leave it be.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:59 AM
Response to Reply #25
27. no need to...
...the cat's already out of the bag so to speak. :-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:05 AM
Response to Reply #20
34. I saw my mother in law half naked once by accident
still gives me chills.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Cadence Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:33 AM
Response to Reply #34
49. I saw my Great Grandmother naked once by accident
and I'm scarred for life. :scared:
See just typing that brought the visual up and I gagged a little.
:puke:

On the other hand if I were married and my brother in law was hot and I had the opportunity to see him naked and nobody know I would probably take it. Of course that's a totally made up scenario.

Darn it why can't I evolve and get over my base instincts!
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:36 AM
Response to Reply #20
43. oh for god's sake -
people are naked all the time. I wouldn't worry about it. ;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:45 PM
Response to Reply #20
80. And That's WHY You Should Not Say a Damn Thing
Because if you do, the question that will be on their minds is 'did he like what he saw?' You do NOT want to start that kind of game between sisters, not unless they are very broadminded.

What you ought to do is just not say anything; save it for some day, many years from now, when your sister-in-law needs a little boost and/or your wife needs a laugh.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
noshenanigans Donating Member (778 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:53 AM
Response to Original message
21. Not worth mentioning..
I mean, if you accidently walked in on her while she was using the bathroom or something, it wouldn't be a matter of conversation later. Just one of those "Oops" kind of things that you laugh about or whatever for a minute and then move on with your life.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 08:58 AM
Response to Original message
26. I think it's sweet that you're worried about what to do.
Of course you shouldn't tell. Why should you? As another person said, she was the one who left the door open.

I kinda get a weird feeling about her not shutting it, actually. If I were taking a shower in someone else's house, I'd be darn sure to shut that door. Heck I never even leave it open when I'm at home.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:02 AM
Response to Reply #26
28. it wasn't like that...
...I had just gotten home. My wife never closes the door either. Never did. She (the sister) probably didn't even think about it since as far as she knew it was only her and my wife at home at the time.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 09:02 AM
Response to Reply #26
29. double post. n/t
Edited on Tue Dec-07-04 09:07 AM by gtp1976
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:00 AM
Response to Original message
31. Did you watch her for a while thinking how beautiful she looked or did you
turn away quickly?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Phillycat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:02 AM
Response to Reply #31
32. Excellent question.
Also, this thread is useless with pics.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:07 AM
Response to Reply #31
36. hmmm...
...I looked. I didn't stand there and watch or anything but I didn't immediately turn around when I saw. Maybe 3 seconds?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:09 AM
Response to Reply #36
37. Enough to size her up see what was underneath? Seems like you saw what
you had wondered about. Did you get excited? Can you not get the image of her out of your mind?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:25 AM
Response to Reply #37
39. no more or less
that when I see someone naked on the Internet or in a movie. It isn't consuming my thoughts.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:28 AM
Response to Reply #39
41. Then why not just ignore it like it never happened? Why bring it up to
strangers - unless you're looking for someone to tell you that its really bad?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:03 AM
Response to Original message
33. don't say anything
Is she hot?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ChavezSpeakstheTruth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:05 AM
Response to Reply #33
35. Thats the real question issn't it?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
amazona Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:20 AM
Response to Original message
38. never tell anyone
No good can come of sharing this information. Let it be our dirty little secret. :-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:27 AM
Response to Original message
40. THIS THREAD IS USELESS WITHOUT PICS
Carry on.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Pacifist Patriot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:30 AM
Response to Original message
42. If the tables were turned and my brother-in-law accidentally
saw me naked getting out of the shower I don't think anything would need to be said. Sorry, but I've got to go with a big *shrug* on this one. It depends upon the individuals, but in my family we'd probably have a good deep blush, a chuckle, and forget about it. So why bother?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
pdx_prog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 10:59 AM
Response to Original message
44. Don't say a word about it!
My ex always accused me of having a thing for her sister. Her sister and I actually had more in common than she and I, but she was a little whacked out.

I wouldn't say anything.....no need in it.. :)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CarbonDate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:11 AM
Response to Original message
45. Just have sex with her and get it over with.
Kidding. :evilgrin:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Iris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:16 AM
Response to Original message
46. I don't understand what your wife's acceptance of porn has to do with
anything???? :shrug:



Flame away.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
gtp1976 Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:18 AM
Response to Reply #46
47. clarification
what I meant was that she's confident enough in our relationship that she doesn't care if I see other women naked. Some people do.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Minimus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:25 AM
Response to Original message
48. My brother-in- law saw me topless
Back in my party years I was out drinking one night and way too drunk to drive home. A friend called my sister to come pick me up, but since she was 8 months pregnant she sent her husband.

My brother in law comes to get me so I can crash on their couch for the night and he said as soon as I got out of the car, as I'm walking up to the front door, I start taking of my shirt. He shouted "You're not wearing a bra!" and quickly got me inside their house. My sister helped me to the couch and I passed out.

I was so drunk but I vaguely remember the incident. I always slept in the nude so I guess I was just anxious to get to sleep (pass out) and decided to start getting undressed as soon as possible.

My sister thought it was hysterical. At first I was a little embarassed around my brother-in-law, but I got over it. My family laughs about it to this day.

So to you I say, no harm, no foul. You were not purposely trying to see her. It is just one of those things that happens along the journey of life.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:37 AM
Response to Original message
50. I wouldn't tell any of my sisters-in-laws.
They would have WAY too much fun telling the story to everyone...

"Hah, hah! Hunter saw me naked!"

It would be the big family joke at Christmas.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Yuugal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 11:59 AM
Response to Original message
51. She was taking a shower in our bedroom bathroom. I did not know.
LIAR LIAR LIAR! You didn't know? HA! Does the shower make less noise in your neck of the woods? Fess up, you just want a 3-some. hehehe just kidding.......

Seriously though, don't mention it. You are feeling guilty because you saw something you feel you shouldn't have. Telling your wife and sister in law will just make them feel guilty also. Your wife will feel bad she let her sis use the shower and the sis will feel bad she didn't close the door. Why stuff everyone in the guilt blender with you? And for God's sake please post photos next time so the rest of us can ummmm help you better next time. ;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
neweurope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:05 PM
Response to Reply #51
52. Americans sure are different
*listens somewhat unbelievingly*
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:18 PM
Response to Reply #52
54. yes we are a very strange culture sometimes
obsessed with sex (overtly) on one hand, but extremely puritanical on the other. :)


and welcome to DU.


Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
CarbonDate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:24 PM
Response to Reply #54
56. We're obsessed with sex because of our puritanicalism, IMO
The less you get it, the more you think about it. And I've been thinking about it a *lot* these past three months in Qatar....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:04 PM
Response to Reply #56
62. then you can analyze it more
from the aspect of the culture where you are now. ;)

I think we pretend to be interested in sex here in America - we think we are interested in it, but we are more interested in the idea of it ( fantasy vs reality) or how to repress it. Sort of like anti-Victorians or something. It's on display all the time, but we really are afraid of it on some level.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
neweurope Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:34 PM
Response to Reply #62
66. It was also the reference to old/ugly bodies...
..that set me to thinking. So only the young and beautiful can one observe without damage? May I suggest a Burkha for the not-so-young-and-pretty...

Ah well. It's just that over here if you accidentally see somebody naked you pretend you didn't and that's it. It's the same thing as when somebody accidentally farts or otherwise slips in your presence.

That something this natural could be discussed at length - hm. Must study it some more.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:35 PM
Response to Reply #66
74. reminds me of a German housemate I had
she used to tell us stories about how relaxed her parents were about having bf's stay the night when she was in her mid teens... it seemed that some Europeans just have a more open attitude about sexuality.

also no one's body stays beautiful forever in the classical sense.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Yuugal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:51 PM
Response to Reply #62
71. of course I'm afraid!
It is scary! Here I am, a dyed in the wool atheist, and I'm pressed up against this crazy lady who is screaming , "OH GOD OH GOD OH GOD OH GODDDDDDDDDDDDD!" It can be very unnerving. ;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
tigereye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:37 PM
Response to Reply #71
75. that's pretty good.
she has obviously transfigured you into some sort of deity during her ecstatic experience. ;)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:09 PM
Response to Original message
53. All depends upon your relationship
Last week my hubby was doing some work for our landlord - putting a set of outdoor stairs up on one of the other rentals. The gal who lives there is about 18 or 19, very cute. He was carrying some lumber around the house and caught a glimpse through the window of her in panties and bra - just a quick look. His first reaction was to run down here and tell me! I said, "oh, good for you, baby" and went back to whatever I was doing. He just had to share because he felt like he'd gotten a bonus on the job and he knew I wouldn't give a shit. Nor would I if it was my sister. If anything, I was happy for him because I knew it was a bit of a thrill. But that's us....
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:24 PM
Response to Original message
55. This time Silence is Golden
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
rockymountaindem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:31 PM
Response to Reply #55
64. That is scary as hell.
You need a warning label or something...
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
geomon666 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:26 PM
Response to Original message
57. Get a few drinks in them.
Then offer to recreate the scene with a few...twists. :)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
FeelinGarfunkelly Donating Member (294 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:47 PM
Response to Original message
58. unless the sis-in-law says something, keep quiet
although if television has taught me anything you should tell your wife. But as a female, I think that would make me more uncomfortable..

i say you're right; no harm, no foul.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Kiteflyer Donating Member (84 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:50 PM
Response to Original message
59. Our cat
was in our bedroom while my wife and I made love. The cat saw everything. Good thing we had her fixed.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Mumble Donating Member (140 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:56 PM
Response to Reply #59
61. I saw the neighbor's cat
screw another cat in our backyard. Should I tell my neighbor or keep quiet?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
drdon326 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 12:53 PM
Response to Original message
60. Offer to wash her back....
then see what she says.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
neoteric lefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:05 PM
Response to Original message
63. wasn't this an episode of Home Improvement?
just wondering...


BTW, don't tell her if you can help it. May end up being nothing but telling her could really affect her. Just my thoughts.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
youthere Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:34 PM
Response to Original message
65. If you are the only one who knows
then shut the heck up. All you stand to do is make your wife feel bad and embarass your sister-in-law. Take it to the grave.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
AlCzervik Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:35 PM
Response to Original message
67. Say nothing-eom
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Aiptasia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:35 PM
Response to Original message
68. A closed mouth catches no feet
If nobody knows what happened and you can live with it, then shut your pie hole. No sense embarrassing the hell out of her or risk pissing off your wife for no reason. Besides, she's family, right?

Accidents are accidents. If your having some sort of weird guilt trip, like "I felt strangely attracted to her" or "I couldn't stop looking, am I a pervert?" then maybe you should talk to your wife about it.

But if it was purely accidental, just relax.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
MadAndy Donating Member (202 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:43 PM
Response to Original message
69. Go For it!
Definitely tell your wife. Also tell her that you are interested in a menage-a-troi with her sister. Who knows, they might be into it. :-)
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
name not needed Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:40 PM
Response to Reply #69
77. Hell. I like you.
You can come over to my house and fuck my sister. :P

Welcome to DU! :hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
PatriotGames Donating Member (896 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:45 PM
Response to Original message
70. Pictures? Just kidding. I think I would keep my mouth shut.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
derby378 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 01:55 PM
Response to Original message
72. If you, personally, are not traumatized...
...then I'd keep mum about it. Probably nothing you haven't seen before, so take it easy.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
billyskank Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 02:03 PM
Response to Original message
73. Forget about it
you know how important it is? Not at all.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:38 PM
Response to Original message
76. Don't ask...Don't tell..
Nothing to be gained by it for ANYONE..

She would be embarrassed
Your wife would be upset
and you might feel weird around her knowing that SHE knows YOU saw her naked :eyes:

Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Champ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:40 PM
Response to Reply #76
78. That is how I handle situations if I can't decide whether to say or not to
If my SO asks me anything I will give her a straight foward answer, but if she doesn't ask there is no need to bring it up.
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
Threedifferentones Donating Member (820 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:42 PM
Response to Original message
79. I wouldn't recommend mentiong it
Edited on Tue Dec-07-04 03:51 PM by Threedifferentones
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
UdoKier Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:52 PM
Response to Original message
81. What a silly question.
Keep it to yourself. Common sense. Even if you replay it in your mind while masturbating, so what? If you just caught a glimpse by accident.

Are you feeling guilty because you looked for a lot longer than you had to?
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
guitar man Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:53 PM
Response to Original message
82. don't say anything
especially if sis-in-law doesn't know you saw her. You might get a chance for a better look next time! :evilgrin:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
one_true_leroy Donating Member (807 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Dec-07-04 03:59 PM
Response to Original message
83. My question... Wy was the door left open?....
*cue delivery man music* chikka chikka bow wow... :party:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 
DU AdBot (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view 
this author's profile Click to add 
this author to your buddy list Click to add 
this author to your Ignore list Mon Sep 22nd 2014, 07:30 AM
Response to Original message
Advertisements [?]
 Top

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC