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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:26 AM Original message |
Eight Dangerous Myths About Spanking |
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AVID (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
1. I nominated this |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
2. My personal experience |
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BrainRants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:15 AM Response to Reply #2 |
13. OK, so help me here... |
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mcar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #13 |
25. I have two boys |
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BrainRants (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:41 AM Response to Reply #25 |
32. Great advice! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:08 PM Response to Reply #32 |
49. I've found taking away privileges to be the MOST effective thing. |
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MissB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:12 PM Response to Reply #49 |
55. And as they get older, involve them in deciding |
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mcar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:05 PM Response to Reply #32 |
91. You're welcome |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:41 PM Response to Reply #32 |
133. It's great your open minded and reaching out. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:09 PM Response to Reply #25 |
93. funny |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:07 PM Response to Reply #13 |
92. IMO escalation is not effective |
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belladonna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:15 PM Response to Reply #13 |
158. All kids are different |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:03 PM Response to Reply #2 |
89. good for you |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
3. Very good post. Kicked and nominated. |
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JimmyJazz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
4. Awesome post, RQ |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
5. Yes I don't beleive in spanking |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
6. Yeah but "spare the rod, spoil the child" |
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cheezus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:08 AM Response to Reply #6 |
10. the bible also says you should stone your unruly children |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:19 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. That's like a gay friend who cites Leviticus |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #6 |
26. Don't give up completely. |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:00 PM Response to Reply #26 |
88. Wow. Very cool paper. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:47 PM Response to Reply #26 |
134. I read an article by a Rabbi who said "Proverbs are to be taken ... |
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G_j (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:58 AM Response to Original message |
7. I am not a parent |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
8. From a personal note and point of view, |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:24 AM Response to Reply #8 |
18. When my parents lost it and hit me, I knew I had "won" |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:30 AM Response to Reply #18 |
24. I was never that bold, but now that I think about it, |
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eridani (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:42 AM Response to Reply #8 |
146. My parents discovered the same thing |
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cheezus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
9. What I remember from my developmental psych class |
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patcox2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 02:21 PM Response to Reply #9 |
109. One dangerous myth about college psych courses: |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
11. should we also not mark children's school papers |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:15 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. I don't see how your response follows from my post. |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:20 AM Response to Reply #12 |
17. the point is you shouldent shield children |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:29 AM Response to Reply #17 |
23. Shielding child from pain and intentionally inflicting it |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:44 AM Response to Reply #23 |
35. i'm not saying "go around and smack your kids all day" |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:46 AM Response to Reply #35 |
36. Kids don't have to be spanked to learn about pain in life |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:55 AM Response to Reply #36 |
43. it that case i believe it is |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:10 PM Response to Reply #43 |
53. "Do as I say, not as I do" doesn't work very well |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:15 PM Response to Reply #53 |
61. hitting isonly half |
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chickenscratching (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. how can one |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #61 |
71. A stern lecture? |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:26 PM Response to Reply #71 |
73. no, it temporarily removes the child from the situation |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:29 PM Response to Reply #73 |
78. Yes, and kids don't like that |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:42 PM Response to Reply #78 |
83. what about in the school yard? |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:49 PM Response to Reply #83 |
85. Don't let the kid play with other kids |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:26 PM Response to Reply #71 |
74. no, it temporarily removes the child from the situation |
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chickenscratching (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:16 PM Response to Reply #53 |
62. thank you gollygee |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 05:59 AM Response to Reply #62 |
148. Is fear, or being scared of something, not a good thing? |
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gollygee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 11:41 AM Response to Reply #148 |
152. Being scared of *something* - ok; being scared of PARENTS - not ok |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:04 PM Response to Reply #152 |
156. They should be afraid of some consequence |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:35 PM Response to Reply #156 |
162. They can be afraid of disapproval... no violence required. n/t |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:52 PM Response to Reply #162 |
166. Afraid of disapproval? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:08 PM Response to Reply #166 |
169. Well once you desensitize them to violence |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:27 PM Response to Reply #169 |
170. Like kids are not desensitized to violence every day |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:28 PM Response to Reply #170 |
171. Violence from parents is different. |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:50 PM Response to Reply #171 |
173. There is a thing called "child abuse" |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 04:10 PM Response to Reply #173 |
174. Did you really think I didn't know? |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 05:18 PM Response to Reply #174 |
175. If they swat them enough... |
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BigMcLargehuge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:32 AM Response to Reply #17 |
27. the point is, don't add to the problems of an already harsh world |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:39 AM Response to Reply #27 |
31. why is there punishment in the first place? |
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BigMcLargehuge (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:44 AM Response to Reply #31 |
34. the only punishement is spanking? |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:48 AM Response to Reply #34 |
37. there is still context |
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Occulus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:07 PM Response to Reply #37 |
48. I remember every spanking I ever got |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:20 PM Response to Reply #48 |
68. your parents diddent sit you down |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 11:43 AM Response to Reply #48 |
153. I Was Frequently Spanked |
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chickenscratching (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:18 PM Response to Reply #37 |
67. he SHOULD |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:05 PM Response to Reply #67 |
168. Is it OK to yell? |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 11:39 AM Response to Reply #37 |
151. Nope |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:11 PM Response to Reply #17 |
54. I strongly disagree. |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:29 PM Response to Reply #17 |
77. You shouldn't shield children from the pain you are about to inflict. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:58 PM Response to Reply #77 |
135. And tons of fetishists have orgasms from bare bottom spankings |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 06:24 PM Response to Reply #135 |
138. If it teaches them to pick up on sarcasm, it'll be worth it. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 07:11 PM Response to Reply #138 |
140. Hey there are plenty of people with all kinds of conservative |
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Inland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 07:20 PM Response to Reply #140 |
141. Well, you had plenty of reasons not to. |
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Book Lover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 05:26 PM Response to Reply #17 |
177. See, here's another problem |
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Lindacooks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. Your comparisons are not valid. |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:25 AM Response to Reply #15 |
19. its not a comparison |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:27 AM Response to Reply #19 |
21. Discuss this article, not your presumptions about people who... |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:35 AM Response to Reply #21 |
30. its not so much as a presumption |
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Lindacooks (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:43 AM Response to Reply #19 |
33. Those things you list are not part of the 'same mindset' |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:50 AM Response to Reply #33 |
40. you got my post all wrong |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:19 AM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Our job is to protect our kids, teach them and give them |
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Maddy McCall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:26 AM Response to Reply #11 |
20. Lemme guess. You have no kids. |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:34 AM Response to Reply #20 |
29. my cat has more value to me than a child, honestly |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:49 AM Response to Reply #29 |
39. Thank you. |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:54 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. *groan* no one understands my point |
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MsUnderstood (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:09 PM Response to Reply #41 |
51. I understand your post. . . |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:18 PM Response to Reply #51 |
66. actually most of the time i advocate talking over spanking |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:24 PM Response to Reply #66 |
72. Please answer... did you read the article? n/t |
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7th_Sephiroth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:27 PM Response to Reply #72 |
75. yes |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:37 PM Response to Reply #75 |
81. Well of course it is a form of propaganda. |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:12 PM Response to Reply #66 |
95. Based on what? |
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:13 PM Response to Reply #41 |
57. Unreasonable, excessive "protection from harm" IS problematic... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:14 PM Response to Reply #41 |
58. You can't protect them till they're 18. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:57 PM Response to Reply #41 |
86. People understand your point. |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:18 PM Response to Reply #41 |
124. there was a woman on the daily show who wrote a book examining |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 11:56 AM Response to Reply #124 |
154. She's an idiot. |
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roguevalley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:12 PM Response to Reply #11 |
123. I agree. I remember a staff meeting where a newbie teacher |
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Pithlet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:29 PM Response to Reply #11 |
172. Yes, because we all fear |
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minkyboodle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:29 AM Response to Original message |
22. time outs suck |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:33 AM Response to Reply #22 |
28. I remember asking my parents to spank me and get it over with.. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 07:41 PM Response to Reply #22 |
142. LOL. Glad your sticking to timeouts. |
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Andy_Stephenson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
38. Spare the rod spoil the child... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:15 PM Response to Reply #38 |
60. Hi Andy. |
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Andy_Stephenson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:29 PM Response to Reply #60 |
76. I am ok...dreading the surgery |
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Kazak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
42. Bravo!! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:16 PM Response to Reply #42 |
63. I posted it in another thread. I'm glad someone mentioned |
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Misunderestimator (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
44. Great post, redqueen! Thanks for posting it. |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 11:59 AM Response to Original message |
45. Thank you for posting this |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
46. You forgot another myth...... |
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Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:15 PM Response to Reply #46 |
59. We, of the spanked generation, seem to have gone in the |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:23 PM Response to Reply #46 |
70. She could have controlled you in other ways than spanking. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:04 PM Response to Reply #70 |
90. I am not sure if he ever remembers being spanked...... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:13 PM Response to Reply #90 |
96. I'm so sorry to hear about your pain. |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:52 PM Response to Reply #96 |
105. Thank you.... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:58 PM Response to Reply #105 |
106. I'm the same way |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 02:12 PM Response to Reply #106 |
107. I might have to read that book. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 07:55 PM Response to Reply #107 |
144. Read any book by Mary Sheedy Kurcinka |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
47. I'm really tired of all this spanking hysteria from the last two days... |
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Stuckinthebush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:10 PM Response to Reply #47 |
52. Concern about violence toward children is petty? |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:12 PM Response to Reply #52 |
56. Oh please. |
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Stuckinthebush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:17 PM Response to Reply #56 |
65. Not violence when done by a parent? |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:50 PM Response to Reply #65 |
120. The mental gynmastics... |
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sonicx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:33 PM Response to Reply #120 |
127. the degree of violence is different, but it is still violence. |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 07:12 AM Response to Reply #127 |
149. I disagree |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:30 PM Response to Reply #47 |
79. I appreciate your opinion, but I certainly don't share it. |
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YellowRubberDuckie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:39 PM Response to Reply #79 |
117. The difference is that I don't see spanking as Violence. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 07:45 PM Response to Reply #117 |
143. I bet the spankee does. |
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Stuckinthebush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:08 PM Response to Original message |
50. Spanking is violence |
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ultraist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:00 PM Response to Reply #50 |
121. I agree 100% Stuckinthebush! |
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alittlelark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:20 PM Response to Original message |
69. Great post! My kids would likely prefer spanking to what we do.... |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:00 PM Response to Reply #69 |
87. That's creative. |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
80. IMO this has some vaild point but... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:42 PM Response to Reply #80 |
82. Unless the child is bigger than you or is somehow capable of physically |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:15 PM Response to Reply #82 |
97. xactly, but |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:28 PM Response to Reply #82 |
99. Huh? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:32 PM Response to Reply #99 |
101. Spanking is physical violence. |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:33 PM Response to Reply #101 |
103. No.... |
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radwriter0555 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 10:27 PM Response to Reply #103 |
145. So how about if I come over and hit YOU on the buttocks when I disagree |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:11 PM Response to Reply #80 |
94. I agree--very propagandistic |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:20 PM Response to Reply #94 |
98. You'd much rather discuss wording than substance, it seems. |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:32 PM Response to Reply #98 |
102. Again... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:36 PM Response to Reply #102 |
104. We'll just have to agree to disagree, then. |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:39 PM Response to Reply #98 |
118. You don't persuade people with shallow, faulty analysis |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #118 |
159. To me, you sound like someone arguing global warming doesn't exist |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 01:30 PM Response to Reply #94 |
100. Or they... |
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sonicx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:26 PM Response to Reply #94 |
126. The writer's point with myth 2 is that just because you are OK after... |
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femme.democratique (969 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 12:47 PM Response to Original message |
84. Physical discipline is NEVER ok |
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patcox2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 02:24 PM Response to Reply #84 |
110. You should get a big ole van and go take their children away then. |
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femme.democratique (969 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:08 PM Response to Reply #110 |
111. Hey, if people can't handle children without resorting to violence.... |
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patcox2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
108. The most damaged person I have ever known was never spanked. |
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femme.democratique (969 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:12 PM Response to Reply #108 |
113. Thanks for your sharing your omniscience regarding selective use.... |
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lateo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:42 PM Response to Reply #108 |
119. A voice of sanity in the mist of rhetoric. |
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sonicx (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:21 PM Response to Reply #119 |
125. The writer of this article knows that mental abuse is harmful |
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RobinA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 11:57 AM Response to Reply #108 |
155. Something Tells Me |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
112. Does Spank=swat or Spank=beat the tar out of? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:24 PM Response to Reply #112 |
114. I thought it obvious that the article in the OP refers to 'swatting'. |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:35 PM Response to Reply #114 |
115. Sorry. Not clear to me. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 03:37 PM Response to Reply #115 |
116. Re-read the parts about emotional pain. |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:15 PM Response to Reply #116 |
128. Then I've a problem with the definition. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:18 PM Response to Reply #128 |
129. Discipline does not mean pain. |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:25 PM Response to Reply #129 |
130. How old are your kids? |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:35 PM Response to Reply #130 |
131. 6 & 8 |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 10:44 AM Response to Reply #131 |
150. 2 reasons. |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:32 PM Response to Reply #150 |
160. Did you read the article? |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 02:03 PM Response to Reply #160 |
167. Ok. |
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Pockets (388 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 04:02 PM Response to Original message |
122. The article is a tad simplistic |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 05:39 PM Response to Original message |
132. Excellent piece! |
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Caoimhe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 06:05 PM Response to Original message |
136. Great article and thanks for the research! |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:33 PM Response to Reply #136 |
161. Wow... dog training classes teach owners never to hit their dogs, |
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Poor Richard Lex (256 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 06:18 PM Response to Original message |
137. 1-2-3 Magic |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:35 PM Response to Reply #137 |
163. Thank you! |
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enki23 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-28-05 06:27 PM Response to Original message |
139. what an amazing collection of strawman bullshit... |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:39 PM Response to Reply #139 |
165. I've asked others to point out the strawmen... |
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Chico Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 05:23 PM Response to Reply #165 |
176. It is a strawman argument because it says spanking = child abuse |
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entanglement (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 03:40 AM Response to Original message |
147. The only kind of spanking I support |
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belladonna (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
157. Thanks for posting this, RQ |
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redqueen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Apr-29-05 01:38 PM Response to Reply #157 |
164. My pleasure! If people are taught never to hit pets... |
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