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aaaaaa5a Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Nov-27-11 10:42 PM
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23. There is actually more to this story....


1) First, the clinic says they have his signed permission. Of course documents can be forged. But I guess such issues can be checked.


2) Sperm can only live outside of the body for about 2 hours. Afterwords they die. He is arguing that after sex, this woman was able to get a condom full of sperm from him, come up with an excuse to leave, get dressed, and fight traffic to get the used condom all the way over to the clinic in an 1:45 minutes? That is an impressive mad dash with a used condom in hand!


3) Every condom I have ever seen contains spermicide. This kills sperm. In that this man allegedly had no particular reason to be very careful in removing the condom when he was finished, aren't the odds of contamination pretty high? Especially for something like this?


4) Before IVF occurs, both parties must consent to an STD check. This requires blood. While it is conceivably possibly to smuggle sperm to the clinic, how did she get his blood there for the test? Furthermore even if she somehow got a vile of his blood to the clinic, how could the clinic verify it was his? There is no clinic in the country that would allow someone to take a blood test this way. Maybe the next time I am applying for a job and a drug screen is required, I will simply urinate in a cup, bleed into a beacon and then have my significant other run it down to the drug lab and just say it came from me! Yea.... I'm sure that will work!


5) He claims his girlfriend has no insurance, so he put her on his policy. What insurance allows a single man to put his girlfriend on his policy? And even if this part of the story were true, IVF isn't something that is done in a week or in just one visit. Is he arguing that he never once received anything in the mail regarding charges for something as costly as IVF until 3 months AFTER they broke up! Not even a statement verifying what the insurance company paid for and what he was responsible for? How about a prior authorization letter? Nothing? Plus according to him, office visits were paid with his bank card. Does he not check his statements?


Sorry, this story doesn't add up.

I don't buy it for one bit.

Anytime stories like this pop up, especially he/said, she/said gender battles, you always have to wait for ALL OF THE FACTS. We saw this with Duke La-cross, Kobe Bryant, DSK etc. etc. etc.

Read the above 5 statements. There is no way she could have pulled this off without his knowledge. And for anyone debating that the woman did this just for money, public reports say she is getting just 800 dollars per month in support. This means she isn't getting rich, and he was never rich to begin with. On top of that, they have joint custody of the children. So the idea that this was a "hit and run" on behalf of the woman and he is bared from his children isn't supported by facts either.


Hmm... lets just wait and see what happens when all of the facts come out.


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