Reply #7: However, I can very much understand your reluctance.

[uppityperson]

Fear is a strong motivator and I have to keep reminding myself that many others feel this way also and it is ok to risk it. Remembering back to 2001-2004 time when I had to figure out whom I could have conversations with. Figuring out a way to be supportive of those in the military, yet NOT supportive of the occupation can be difficult. A friend's son just headed back for tour #3. I was hesitant to talk with her at first but she is very angry and scared about it. Just wants them all home. The kid signed up yrs back mid-clinton time, trying for retirement, trying to survive.