Reply #51: LoL

[Beam Me Up]

:rofl:

Yeah, I don't know. The one thing that came to me in my younger years was that I was attracted to the same gender cues I was competing for attention with. That got very confusing at times.

I try to imagine the opposite. Not easy. I have known a few cross dressing straight men but I think, comparatively speaking, there are very few straight women who are attracted to them. I mean, compared to the same "gender cues" attraction between gay men.

IOW, all in all I think the OP is correct but I'm NOT willing to say there are no differences between gays and straights or whatever. I *like* being special!

EDIT TO ADD: I remember this one time I was working out in the gym. There was this blond guy doing bench presses near by. VERY CUTE! I kept watching him in the mirror as I was doing curls. Then SUDDENLY IT DAWNED ON ME: oh my god, its a lesbian! Cracked me up. I had to go over to her, "Girl, you are SO cute! You really had me going there for a bit." She thought that was very funny. But true.