Reply #122: In some cultures (here in the US, even), isn't there a dowry involved?

[JDwho]

We studied this in college and it is no joke. You marry who is chosen for you, even if their touch disgusts you.
For example, from the woman's point of view (against the marriage, but duty bound):
Wouldn't the cooking, cleaning, laundry, birthing of children and obligatory sexual relations amount to something similar to slavery?
I read earlier posts and thought...it's not such a far out idea, with or without the female's family getting a dowry. It occurs to me that the exchange of the dowry, for the girl/woman, could even amount to human trafficking.

Yes, I know, some of these marriages work out beautifully and may even have the same (or better)chances as those of us who married for love. But, it seems there is something criminal about it.
I agree with he OP. It's antiquated and violates basic civil rights.