Reply #190: flvegan, I've loved and appreciated your posts on this topic, but I think that you're wrong about

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"if and when you really want to lose weight you will." Some of us have mental health issues (including the related meds) that impede our ability to do many of the things that would be best for us. People don't seem to understand that mental illness is unique in that one must rely on the defective part of us to try and heal that defective part. (No offense to others who don't consider their mental health issues to be a defect.)