Reply #25: i am sick of women being blamed for men's behaviour and thoughts.

[prole_for_peace]

i like to feel good about how i look. i had lipo in november and feel so much better about myself. i now wear clothes that actually fit instead of tents to hide myself. i (and most of the women i know) don't wear things for MEN we wear them for ourselves and for other women. i find myself wondering if my best friend will think my outfit is "cool" WAY more often than i wonder if any guy is going to like it (unless it is one of my gay friends).

if someone gets turned on by something i wear or don't wear then that is their problem not mine. but unfortunately a lot of people don't believe that.