Reply #166: It is a choice both make at the outset

[The Straight Story]

and if she owns the sperm, then she owns the end result of it if she chooses to keep it.

Not to mention the age old argument - what if the condom breaks, etc and so on.

If he gives it to her, and she now owns it, then the male is not responsible for what she chooses to do with it, she is.

Should he have to use his body for 18 years to work and pay for someone else's decision? If she can dictate to him how he is to live the next 18 years and he can't dictate what happens in 9 months - how is that fair to either?