Reply #48: am I heartless indeed?

[DearAbby]

I understand her concern. I would never belittle her because she must think of the survival of her children. I have children of my own, they are grown now.

This is just a discussion, is it an option? Pros and Cons. All plans should be carefully considered. And the thread has been interesting in the responses.

No one would ever ask her to endanger her children, even I am not that heartless.