Reply #8: yes it is possible. further i experience. after 12 years i fall in love

[seabeyond]

more and more. i wouldnt have thought it to be true, but it is. we respect each other more. enjoy each other more. it is great, absolutely great. i was talking to him a couple days ago, because of something and i said, you know, no other woman will put up with your shit. i was teasing but that got me thinking. my husbands things are a shrug of shoulder for me. i know it is part of him. i dont need to change it. i dont get bothered or pissed. it is the non perfect of him. and it doesnt bother me. mine dont bother him either

i think what a lot of couples do, is allow themselves to be irritated by the negatives or non perfect. and they want to change them. they say, you need to work on these things. and i personally just do not have to/ will not,. we are all allowed our imperfection. and if i want my imperfections to be allowed (and i do cause i like it just fine) then i must allow his too

yes, happiness in marriage is awfully good. or i would have no desire to be married at all. i dont need to be with a person. this is the only way, for me. and it is just grand

we dont fight. we have no desire to fight. we dont argue. he allows me to be and i him. he does not want my power. he does not want me to do him. and vice versa. and it is a kick ass environment to raise kids

we just really really like each other and he makes me laugh