Reply #1: Not much time

[lukasahero]

but I just thought this as I was moving on to other things thinking I would give your post some thought.

My first reaction was that, of course, I would let a boy babysit - without question. And as I started to think about that I realized that it is because I would not let anyone near my children (if I had any) or even my dog (which I do have) without knowing them, their family, their values etc and having fully assessed their character.

Of course that doesn't guarantee nothing could ever happen but I do think it improves the odds.