Reply #38: i don't hate my daughter

[mopinko]

even though she has projected every bit of her delusions on to me. she believes that i beat her daily. she once told a teacher, who told dcfs that her brother beat her every day. he is a sweet, gently kid, and the wounds were self inflicted.
i wish i had a nickle for every time DH and i looked at each other and wondered if we SHOULD have beaten her.
but i just sit here broken hearted, and wonder what the path to taking care of her is.