Reply #105: Oh, I see.Suggested solution:

[Random_Australian]

1) When describing, leave out any mention of religion; OR
2) Judge the actions, you are more than more than entitled to question if his plans are the wisest course of action; you can even say that you do not believe he is a particularly moral Christian/person. You have to be careful.... (as we all must be at times), but talking it over like this, then drawing lines & sticking to them is probably going to be the best idea. But a good starter is "Judge the ideas not the person" - after all, it IS possible that * thinks he is doing what is best.