Reply #32: Visit an indoor range that rents guns to shoot. Try out a variety.

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Because of arthritis, I can no longer rack the slide on most automatics so my handgun is a revolver. I tried several weights before I found a S & W 38 revolver that felt comfortable in my hand. Others have recommended a 357. I disagree. A 38 that is strong enough to shoot +P ammunition is a fine self defense weapon and it doesn't bark or shoot flame like a 357.

Whatever you buy, spend range time getting comfortable with the use.

A shotgun is also a good home defense choice. The shotgun I have is lightweight. It functions simply. A blast from a shotgun won't penetrate your walls which is a real consideration for apartment dwellers.

I've shot rifles most of my life. I still needed significant instruction from my husband before I was comfortable with a pistol. My husband is a good and patient teacher. Still, I recommend seeking professional instruction. Many ranges offer classes. Seriously consider enrolling.