Reply #15: If you are thinking revolvers

[pipoman]

remember that you can shoot .38 special ammo in any .357 magnum handgun (you cannot shoot .357 mag in a .38 special). If you buy a medium sized frame .357 magnum (like a Smith & Wesson 686 4" or even 6" barrel), then shoot a good quality hollow point defensive round through it, it is very easy to handle. The heavier frame absorbs much of the recoil and actually makes shooting easier than a light weight, short barrel revolver. Also if you are going to leave the first chamber empty be sure to get a 6 shot revolver, many of the smaller frame revolvers are 5 shots. Maybe after you are familiar with your revolver you will feel more comfortable with rounds in all chambers. Another good investment with a revolver would be a couple of speed loaders made for use with your gun. My wife isn't a large woman and she has always liked shooting a heavier weight handgun, her weapon of choice is a solid stainless steel .45 semiauto. It is a heavy gun but shoots with very light recoil.

I agree with above, choose your own gun. Attend beginner firearms training, then followup with a solid defensive firearms training class. Then practice as much as possible. We have been shooting for years, carried firearms for years as part of our chosen profession, attended numerous defensive classes and workshops. And raised 2 boys (now both are 18) in our home. We included them in the sport and age appropriate training. Neither are gun enthusiasts, both respect them and can use them properly if needed. Good luck, and shoot safe!