Reply #10: You are very wise.

[blue neen]

"They rant and rave and piss and moan about how everything that's fucked up in their lives - and that amount is legion - is the fault of everybody else; and when mature and adjusted people come along and point out that most of the fault is the result of their own behavior, they retaliate with abuse, scorn, and derision, even though they say that they're looking for help."

I know the person you are talking about...I truly do.