Reply #16: What about potential for disease? Possible pregnancy and child?

[Rabrrrrrr]

Too much at stake.

Certainly, we are all different, but I think the majority of people would not react as you have.

If the friend decided to stop as soon as I told him/her that I was going to tell the spouse, then that's one thing - but there's still the issue of possible disease to worry about.

Sometimes we have to be the bearer of bad news to our friends, because it's actually the least bad thing to do.