Reply #47: It may not be that you are heartbroken

[LibraLiz1973]

It is far more likely that your ego is bruised.
You are getting emotional, wondering what could be WRONG with you that he would do this.
And wondering why you aren't good enough.
All that negative self dialog is what fucks everything up.

Forgive yourself for putting up with his shit
and move on.

Instead of looking at it as a negative look at it as a positive. Instead of it going on for years,
it only went on for months.

Don't be a glutton for punishment- DO NOT CALL HIM.
Calling him and telling him not to worry only let him know how upset you are.
IF he was worried about how YOU feel, he would have said something ALOT more gentlemanly when he said it was over.


The choice is yours. Move on and be happy, or, obsess over what was not a good relationship
that was going nowhere. That process could take months out of your life and there is not reason for that.

You can't change the way he feels about you and the truth is, you shouldn't want to.
The guy for you will love you WITHOUT you having to pray for him to do so.


Erase his phone numbers & email address from your life and move on.

In a few months you will look back at this and be beyond relieved that you did.