Reply #56: We've tended to end up with "default jobs"

[SarahB]

We'll do the other person's default jobs though if need be. I'm the default laundry lady. I do about 95% of it. He will do it, but I have to be specific about it. That's probably my big advice: DON'T ASSUME ANYTHING. Give direction and be specific!

He is, however, the default chef/cook. If he's home and I'm home, he usually does it. If I cook, he cleans up. Usually vice versa unless something else is going on. I usually clean bathrooms (which is funny because I find lots of those red hairs all over... hmmm). We're equal tidy-uppers (clutter pick up), but when he has time, he's quicker about it. He will be default lawn guy because of the whole bathroom thing once we get a house. :D

Sit down and have the conversation. :hug: