Reply #48: Pretty much 50/50.

[femmocrat]

I was a SAHM for a long time and did most of the house work, but I had the time (he travelled).

Since I have been working full-time, we split things up a lot more. I think it depends on who has time to do those things. Someone probably already suggested this, but can't you just make a list of who does what? And if he doesn't do "whatever" to your standards, keep it to yourself! It's just not all that important that everything be perfect.

Like I always say, "Martha (Stewart) isn't coming here today." Relax!