Reply #10: Would it accomplish anything if she said you are "too boring", or "too dumb" or

[SharonAnn]

"too narcissistic", or "too tall", or "too short", or "too liberal", or "too conservative", or ???????

What would be the point? These are not things you can change, at least not as far as she's concerned.

And kindness is a good thing. Brutal truth is not necessary because it might be hurtful.

So, she said you're a "nice" person but obviously she doesn't want to see you again. That's that!

Keep looking.

BTW, if you had felt she was "too..." something, it might've been best to do the same thing. Tell she's a "nice" person.