What's your deal-breaker?

[rbnyc]

Hi Lounge Pals,

I am taking a little lunch break and I thought I'd pop in. My question for you all is what's your deal-breaker in the following areas?

Friendship
Romantic Relationship
Job
Place to live


Here are mine.

I can't be friends with anyone who uses heroin. I can't be friends with anyone who tries to make me feel guilty if I don't invite them to something or don't reach out to them often enough.

I can't be in a romantic relationship with anyone who uses heroin, coke, or drinks excessively, or smokes cigarettes. I can't be in a romantic relationship with anyone who resorts to violence. I can't be in a romantic relationship with anyone who doesn't put the needs of my/our son first. (Thankfully, my husband is a non-smoking, non-heavy-drugging, non-violent, awesome dad.)

I can't take or remain n a job if I don't believe in the mission. I can't take or remain in a job if I don't like my boss. I can't take or remain in a job if it doesn't provide health insurance. I can't take or remain in a job if it doesn't cover my cost of living.

I can't live in a place that has no public transportation. I can't live in a place that is mono-cultural.

:hi:

Okay. Have fun.