Reply #3: Speak with the PCP about the possibility, or at least

[crim son]

have the person agree to mention their symptoms to the doctor. Most physicians are extremely receptive and understanding when it comes to discussing possible depression, and most won't automatically prescribe meds or counseling until they understand the patient's particular situation. I wouldn't ignore it though. And if the person refuses to accept any help, the best thing you can do is be there and encourage them to express their feelings. Hugs work wonders in the short term. It's v. hard to deal with a depressed loved one. It's... what's the word? Depressing. I'm sorry you are in this situation.