Reply #32: Hey girl!

[Dangerously Amused]

:hi:


That's what I'm talking about! I don't want to be on "Perma-Bitch" mode; I still want to be polite and kind to good people, but Insta-Bitch when legitimately threatened.

So what I want to know is, how did you find your Inner Bitch?

I talked to this guy in the social work field about it, he said that finding my Inner Bitch when I need her is a behavior I can learn. Basically he just said to be aware of the situation and keep reviewing and evaluating my performance every time it happens, ask others for input (like here), keep it up front in my mind and play out different scenarios and different potential responses and eventually my mind will engage enough to implement some of the things I've been thinking about when the next situation arises. And just keep working it from that angle.

I'm hoping he's right. Is that what you did?