Reply #2: Count your lucky stars

[ForrestGump]

You're better off without her, and better off for finding out now how she is. I know it's easier said than done, but it's time to forget her and move on, even if you're not particularly moving on to anywhere else that you know of. Be happy you're delivered from spending another day under the thrall of ths person.

I know how you feel, I think (as much as anyone can know how another feels), but -- trust me -- this is better than going further with her and regretting even more time, energy, and depth of emotion spent on and with her. As bad as it is, it could have been worse.

There's someone out there for you...don't look for her and you'll probably find each other.