Reply #57: My husband says he's a "brain man".

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He has little tolerance for stupid, and I can't imagine him ever, ever dating an airhead bimbo type. And he married me (a Ph.D. student, geeky, was in gifted class in elementary school, intellectual "elitist" and all of that).

Only stupid insecure guys are really interested in stupid girls. And you don't want one of them anyway. I know of which I speak because before my husband I was living with a man who was extremely threatened by the "smart" things about me. He used to make fun of me for reading, for instance, and would pick fights if I accidentally started discussing something that he didn't happen to know about. That guy eventually turned out to be emotionally and physically abusive, and I left after he threw me into a wall and destroyed some of my stuff.