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nothingshocksmeanymore Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Nov-13-03 05:57 PM
Response to Reply #14
16. I think the counseling is in order both to get you past the trauma but
also to take a look at your internal conversation which you often share with us. Granted we all feel picked on and abused at times and especially when one has gone through something hard like a robbery and a mugging, thoughts like "WHY ME?" are bound to occur.

But I noticed you had a similar conversation about the friend who got a better job as well.

If anything has a HOLD on our life it is the internal conversations we have with ourselves. Those conversations virtually DICTATE what our reality is.

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  -I hate my situation jiacinto  Nov-13-03 05:17 PM   #0 
  - glad you're still with us  Magic Rat   Nov-13-03 05:19 PM   #1 
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  - Forget astrological alignments for now  LibertyChick   Nov-13-03 05:48 PM   #13 
     - I know  jiacinto   Nov-13-03 05:53 PM   #14 
        - I think the counseling is in order both to get you past the trauma but  nothingshocksmeanymore   Nov-13-03 05:57 PM   #16 
        - I agree with is absolutely vital to become aware  DemEx_pat   Nov-13-03 06:05 PM   #19 
           - It all ties back into this notion that language matters  nothingshocksmeanymore   Nov-13-03 06:09 PM   #22 
              - So hard to be positive amidst so much negativity  jiacinto   Nov-13-03 06:12 PM   #23 
                 - There is a VERY big difference between BEING POSITIVE  nothingshocksmeanymore   Nov-13-03 06:23 PM   #24 
                    - did youg et my PM yet  jiacinto   Nov-13-03 06:23 PM   #26 
        - Bad things happen to a lot of people  Droopy   Nov-13-03 06:00 PM   #17 
        - Trying to  jiacinto   Nov-13-03 06:01 PM   #18 
        - Believe me  LibertyChick   Nov-13-03 06:06 PM   #20 
        - I know, I know  jiacinto   Nov-13-03 06:08 PM   #21 
        - NSMA's Advice is Most Helpful.  David Zephyr   Nov-13-03 10:51 PM   #28 
  - Mentally start over  Nikia   Nov-13-03 05:57 PM   #15 
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