Reply #42: You're right-it's always someone else's fault

[Kathy in Cambridge]

I was thinking of this woman I knew on the punk rock scene many years ago. She was the classic narcissist. Even though she had a boyfriend-who was basically an enabler-she would try to seduce other men right in front of him. She drank and did a lot of drugs too, so it was like watching a train wreck. There was no talking to her, and people began avoiding her like the plague. She died of a drug overdose last year at 39.