Reply #7: Yeah, I do have sort of a hang up

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I have a sick fetish where I can only be attracted to a woman after I am friends with her first for like at least a couple of months. Then when I try to move it to the next level they always say no because they don't want to ruin our friendship, but then they fall instantly in love with some other dude they just met, run off with him, and ditch me altogether. This has happened to me twice just in the past year.