Reply #15: i know how she feels.

[madrchsod]

but she must think about her piroties now. since she`s almost done with school and you guys can live on your earnings, she should stay home for a few years untill the market for her skills becomes better and your daughter gets older. believe me ,i`ve been tru this several times and as i look back i never would want anything different .i got to be home at different times in the lives of my three children. i`d never trade that for any amount of money. she may not think that way now but when you get my age you`ll know what i mean. they grow up so fast and every monent you can spend with them is worth all the money you`ll miss. after a while she`ll feel better,esp. when all that rejection and depression is gone-the baby comes first and everything else will fall in line.
also she can try and find part time work-just to get away for a few hrs.,then you can take over. if things don`t pick up in a few years there`s always herr own business, i did this for ten years out of my house so i was always home with the kids to haul them here and there...hell she`s going to have a degree ,she`ll have no problem doing something she would really like to do..she may not even know what now but you never know,i sure didn`t . good luck...