Reply #10: You sound pretty much normal.

[dawg]

The only thing that sounds a little off is that you were "afraid" of taking the relationship to a physical level. I'm wondering what had you so worried. I'd need to know that in order to make a definitive diagnosis.

But I was a 20 year-old virgin, myself. And looking back, I wouldn't have done any differently. Sex is something powerful that can be used to ehnance a close and loving relationship. But it isn't everything. And fewer people are doing it than you would think.