You are viewing an obsolete version of the DU website which is no longer supported by the Administrators. Visit The New DU.
Democratic Underground Latest Greatest Lobby Journals Search Options Help Login
Google

Reply #10: I am not above taking away EVERYTHING. [View All]

Printer-friendly format Printer-friendly format
Printer-friendly format Email this thread to a friend
Printer-friendly format Bookmark this thread
This topic is archived.
Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU
FedUpWithIt All Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-20-09 06:52 PM
Response to Original message
10. I am not above taking away EVERYTHING.
My daughter is now 16 and i give her a lot more freedom now but if she crosses the established rules she gets a grounding with no tv (unless the family is collectively watching it) no phone, no music. She has to stay in family areas and she is allowed to read. It is VERY affective in our case. She HATES it but she will comply. Not all kids are the same though. Some kids would simply rebel more with this tactic.

Perhaps you could have her do some research for report relating to the dangers of her behavior. Stats for teen pregnancy, incidents of potential date assaults... Perhaps the report can be used to take some time off of a grounding. Sometimes when a child blocks out a parent's concerns, prompting them to process the risks from sources they seek out puts things into a new perspective.

Either way, GOOD LUCK.

:hi:
Printer Friendly | Permalink |  | Top
 

Home » Discuss » The DU Lounge Donate to DU

Powered by DCForum+ Version 1.1 Copyright 1997-2002 DCScripts.com
Software has been extensively modified by the DU administrators


Important Notices: By participating on this discussion board, visitors agree to abide by the rules outlined on our Rules page. Messages posted on the Democratic Underground Discussion Forums are the opinions of the individuals who post them, and do not necessarily represent the opinions of Democratic Underground, LLC.

Home  |  Discussion Forums  |  Journals |  Store  |  Donate

About DU  |  Contact Us  |  Privacy Policy

Got a message for Democratic Underground? Click here to send us a message.

© 2001 - 2011 Democratic Underground, LLC