Reply #30: Thank you for your insight, Rabrrrrrr.

[Radio_Lady]

Maybe this is part of the 12-step programs I have taken for episodes of love addiction in my life.

One of the steps is to try and make amends to people you feel you have harmed. I definitely feel I was enduring a tragic episode of depression -- a student at college, falling behind in my studies, not happy living in difficult circumstances in Los Angeles -- when I "cast my intellectual and sexual spell" on this fellow. He didn't know what hit him and soon we were off on this impossibly difficult journey together. I never meant to hurt him, but I am sure he went through his own private hell during our marriage and divorce.

By the way, if his mother were still alive, I would be send the pearls to her. But I looked her up on the Social Security Death Index, and she had passed away.

Have a great week, Rabrrrrr! It's excellent to hear from you!