Reply #4: Sorry about that, man. Something similar happened to me

[NewWaveChick1981]

not long after I broke up with my first boyfriend. A guy who lived in my apt. complex seemed like a nice guy, and he and I talked several times when I was out walking my dog. He even came over one day to help me move some furniture, and he stayed to watch tv. He asked me to go to a concert with him that weekend, and I accepted. He kissed me goodnight just before he went back home. I thought, "Finally! A nice guy to go out with." We got to Saturday night, and I met him at his apartment as we agreed. I got in the door, and was greeted with, "Come on in and meet my girlfriend! You'll really like each other. By the way, your ticket was $20, so you can pay me later in the evening." I stayed for about ten minutes, but I bowed out saying I didn't feel well but thanks anyway. (Actually, I was angry as hell!) Saw the guy later that week in the parking lot and didn't say anything. He waved, but I pretended I didn't see him. He stopped by a day or so later, and I told him it wasn't cool to ask me on a date and then have his girlfriend waiting in his apt. AND being told to pay for my own ticket after he asked me out. He didn't come around any more---oh, and his girlfriend broke up with him about two weeks later. :evilgrin:

I feel your pain. :hug: