Reply #22: She has refused all contact

[Whoa_Nelly]

Won't talk on phone, did finally answer my emails when I was asking if I could come over to get a few of my things at her place and to bring her her stuff...that's when she called me a martyr, gave me a specific date and one hour time slot that could be done, how to do it, where to leave it on her porch...I knocked on her door. She was on the other side...could hear her trying to keep her dog quiet...she wouldn't answer. All this within the space of a couple of months after I moved from out-of-state to live near her and her family. She then sold on eBay many gifts I had given her over the years...many were specifically "Sister" gifts. Now after almost three years, she has not contacted me, and I know she would never accept my contacting her...she's a grudge holder, even though my life decision was not about her, somehow she saw it that way.

Anyway...there's always the longer version of any story, and I am sorry you have felt forgotten/discarded by your family.

You can be family here xoxox :hug: