Reply #152: So now it is okay to use someone's grief in order

[CornField]

to draw out a fellow DUer you feel is in need of a tombstone?

Frankly, when it comes to "threads like this" DUers, for the most part, are in need of a good spanking. There are certain lines to civilized behavior that should not be crossed, even in the realm of politics. For the record, slamming someone based on the way they choose to grieve or not to grieve their child is probably the biggest of all those lines.

As for links:

http://www.uk-sands.org/ -- from the UK

http://www.marchofdimes.com/professionals/681_1198.asp - March of Dimes

http://www.stillnomore.org/main.htm - National Stillbirth Society

http://www.wisc.edu/wissp/ - Wisconsin Stillbirth Service Program

http://www.compassionatefriends.org/Brochures/stillbirth.htm - Compassionate Friends

Or maybe you'd rather be referred to books:

Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby

How to Go On Living After the Death of a Baby

The Bereaved Parent

There are hundreds more links, magazine articles and books I could link to here, but I won't bother.